In this episode of the Style POV, I’m doing something a little different. Instead of sitting down with a guest, I’m sharing a collection of voices from within the community—listeners and style seekers just like you—who’ve generously offered up their personal reflections and turning points on the journey of getting dressed.

These aren’t polished style formulas or one-size-fits-all answers. They’re honest, intimate stories about learning to see yourself more clearly, letting go of what no longer fits, and leaning into the outfits—and moments—that feel the most like you.

Between each voice, I offer gentle reflections to connect the dots, not to explain or solve, but to honor what’s shared and highlight the everyday wisdom in it. We talk about the messy middle of personal style, what it means to trust your gut, and how sometimes the most meaningful shifts come quietly.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your style, unsure of where to go next, or just needed a reminder that no one has it all figured out—this episode is here to help you feel a little more rooted in your own process.

Full Show Notes: https://gabriellearruda.com/style-wisdom-real-stories-and-advice-from-listeners-like-you/

{show notes has Iris Van Herpen dress reference and referenced videos}

Dream Style Video

Chapters:

01:40 – Identify what truly inspires you
6:51 – Circle back to who you really are
9:07 – Be comfortable with being seen
10:52 – Being seen isn’t always easy
13:30 – Embrace the messy middle in your style journey
15:12 – Let go of perfectionism
17:28 – We are stars and we need to shine
19:58 – Style is how we process who we’ve become
22:29 – Staying true to yourself

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In this episode of the Style POV, I sit down with Anastasia Souris—better known as the Denim Curator—to talk about how she’s turned a lifelong love of denim into a signature style that’s both personal and deeply considered.

With a background in marketing and PR for brands like Victoria’s Secret, Steve Madden, and Michael Kors, Anastasia brings an editorial eye to everything she wears. We chat about how her career shaped her style, what drew her to vintage denim in the first place, and why finding the perfect pair of jeans is often more about patience than perfection.

She shares how her Denim Edit series became a go-to resource for fashion lovers, and how she uses storytelling, craftsmanship, and a sense of self to guide what she wears. We also get into wedding planning, community accountability in fashion, and the ongoing tug-of-war between trends and gut instinct.

If you’ve ever wanted to shop more intentionally—or simply understand what makes denim so iconic—this conversation is full of tips, stories, and inspiration.

Where To Find Anastasia:

Instagram: @anastasiasouris

TikTok: @anastasia.souris

Substack: @anastasiasouris

anastasiasouris.komi.io

Full Show Notes: https://gabriellearruda.com/anastasia-souris-on-timeless-style-vintage-denim-and-personal-evolution/

Timestamps

01:21 – The Journey from Marketing and PR
03:17 – Personal Style as your Personal Brand
06:07 – Inspired by the Classics
09:20 – Finding the Perfect Pair of Jeans
11:29 – A Lesson in Patience: Vintage Hunting
15:01 – Current Style Philosophy
17:49 – Fashion Accountability to the Community
20:28 – Wedding Planning
24:28 – Start with What You Have
29:06 – Following Trends or Trusting Your Gut?
31:52 – Tips for Finding Vintage Levi's
37:10 – What’s in Anastasia’s Cart

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In this solo episode, I’m breaking down a concept I come back to again and again with clients: style value levers.

These are the core priorities—comfort, creativity, sustainability, price point, and more—that silently shape our wardrobes. And when we try to push all of them to 100%, we end up overwhelmed, disconnected, and still not loving what we wear.

This episode isn’t just about figuring out what matters to you stylistically. It’s about giving yourself permission to focus on the few values that actually move the needle for you right now.

I’ll share:

• What style value levers are and how they subtly guide your choices
• Why personal style systems like color analysis or Kibbe sometimes miss the mark
• What happened when I embraced my Bright Spring palette and let go of outdated beliefs
• A challenge to help you clarify your top 2–3 levers and actually use them while shopping

This one’s for anyone who’s ever stood in front of a full closet and felt like nothing was right—not because it was wrong, but because it wasn’t aligned.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Seasonal color analysis
• Style systems (like Kibbe)
• The role of trends vs. personal alignment
• My personal shift into Bright Spring & essence work
• Rita's Style Keys Interview

Thanks for listening to Style POV. If this episode resonated, share it with a friend or leave a quick review—it helps others find the show.

Full Show Notes: gabriellearruda.com/what-are-your-style-value-levers

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In this episode of Style POV, I sit down with journalist Rachel Hills to explore how personal style can be both a tool for self-expression and a form of self-transformation.

You’ve seen Rachel’s work in Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Elle, The Sydney Morning Herald, and The New York Times—and in our chat, she shares the early influences that shaped her style and how it’s evolved into something that holds both power and connection.

We dive into her behind-the-scenes experiences at some of fashion’s most iconic shows, her thoughts on the rise of "it girls", and what today’s TikTok-driven trends say about how we dress. Rachel also opens up about navigating the balance between novelty and sustainability, and how AI is beginning to shift the way we think about fashion.

If you’ve ever wondered how the industry insiders see style—or what it looks like to define your look in a fast-moving world—this episode is one to press play on.

Rachel's Companion Article: How We Dress for Power- and for Eachother

Full Show Notes: https://gabriellearruda.com/style-as-a-tool-for-self-expression-and-self-transformation-with-rachel-hills/

Where to Find Rachel:

Heart Talk by Rachel Hills Substack

Instagram: @msrachelhills

Legacy Article Referenced { why every creator needs an archive-before it's too late}

Rachel's Kibbe Article

00:00 – Intro To Rachel Hills, journalist
01:21 – In Love with Fashion but trend-resistant
05:27 – Fashion as Expression or Transformation?
06:04 – Using Fashion to Create Connections
08:12 – TikTok Trends
10:54 – The Era of Influencers
14:04 – Democratizing Fashion
15:37 – The Rise of “It Girls”
24:40 – The Language of Fashion: A Gift or Learned?
28:30 – Evolution of Fashion Shows
30:27 – Building Your Fashion Legacy
32:58 – Fashion and AI
34:32 – Novelty vs Sustainability
36:35 – Being Fashionable and Intellectual at the Same Time
43:58 – Her Fashion Moment
47:11 – Final Thoughts + Reflections

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In this episode of The Style POV’s Style Files series, I sit down with Eve to chat about her deeply personal approach to getting dressed—one that centers around her unique words using the three-word method.

Eve walks me through how her style has evolved over the years, blending nostalgia, playfulness, and a totally carefree vibe. From sewing her own clothes to rejecting one-size-fits-all fashion advice, she’s created a wardrobe that feels entirely her own. We talk about her love of vintage, how she shops more sustainably, and the way she uses personal memories to shape what she wears.

We also dig into how her mom shaped her style, what creativity looks like in her day-to-day, and why tuning into yourself is key when defining your look. If you’ve ever felt like fashion should be more meaningful—or just more you—this conversation is full of insight and inspiration.

Full Show Notes (with pictures): https://gabriellearruda.com/style-files-eve-is-style-for-you-or-for-the-spectator/

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In this solo episode of Style POV, I dive into what really makes an outfit work—from the inside out. I explore the foundations of fashion design, including how structure and detail shape the way clothes function and feel.

We’ll look at body proportions in a more empowering light, and I’ll share how understanding your lines, movement, and rhythm can shift not just how you dress—but how you feel. I also talk about using illusion with intention, dressing to support your emotions, and tapping into the idea of fantasy style—dressing like the version of you you're growing into.

This episode is part design guide, part style therapy, and full of ways to help you reconnect with your clothes and your sense of self.

full show notes: https://gabriellearruda.com/the-art-of-dressing-style-pov/

Resources

Style Pillars Playlist

Dream Style Video

Creating a Style Story Episode

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome to Style POV
01:03 – Understanding Design in Fashion
03:59 – Body Types and Proportion
07:24 – The Power of Lines in Clothing
15:08 – The Illusion Game: Empowerment Through Clothing
18:43 – Dressing for Emotion
21:27 – Fantasy Dressing: Exploring Your Style
23:37 – Conclusion: Embrace Your Style Journey

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This episode of Style POV is part of the Style Files segment — where listeners come on the podcast to share their real, evolving style journeys: the wins, the messiness, the growth, and all the surprising turns in between.

Today, I’m chatting with Christina, whose story touches on everything from childhood fashion memories to the Barbie movie’s influence, sewing school adventures, and navigating personal style through shifting body changes and life stressors. It’s thoughtful, creative, and incredibly relatable — especially if you’ve ever felt like your wardrobe was a tornado of clothes and not enough yes-pieces.

A quick note: if you're watching the video version, you’ll notice my footage looks a little different than usual. That’s because my original audio was completely unusable (yes, podcaster panic moment), so I re-recorded my parts afterward. Same questions, same energy, just with a slightly different setup. Thanks for rolling with it.

I think you’ll love Christina’s warmth, curiosity, and the way she’s approaching style as both self-care and creative expression. Let’s get into it.

Full Show Notes: https://gabriellearruda.com/style-files-christina-from-barbiecore-to-sewing-class

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In this episode, I dive into the world of moody aesthetics with YouTube's dark muse queen, Silkymochi. Also known as Melyssa Mochi, she talks about her Dark Muse series, a captivating exploration of gothic edge and dark aesthetics. We break down the inspirations behind each muse—Vampire, Witch, Siren, Haunted Doll, and Fairy—and how these can be tailored to real-life fashion. Melyssa shares her personal journey, tips for transitioning into dark aesthetics, balancing professional attire with moody elements, and even integrating astrology into your style. This episode is a treasure trove for anyone looking to embrace a mysterious, elegant, and authentically dark style, or anyone looking for creative next steps in their personal style building.

Full Show Notes

More from Melyssa, Silky Mochi

Silky Mochi Website

Dark Muse Introduction Video

Perfume Video

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Dark Muse

00:24 Meet Melyssa Mochi: The Queen of Dark Aesthetics

00:35 Exploring the Dark Muse Archetypes

02:09 Vampire: The Dramatic and Opulent Muse

03:18 Witch: The Natural and Earthy Muse

04:40 Siren: The Minimalist and Alluring Muse

06:03 Haunted Doll: The Soft and Unsettling Muse

07:26 Fairy: The Colorful and Playful Muse

08:23 Misunderstandings and Real-Life Applications of Dark Aesthetics

10:19 Building a Dark Aesthetic Wardrobe

13:50 Fashion as a Narrative: Personal Style and Storytelling

22:23 Transitioning to a Dark Aesthetic

33:59 Exploring Siren and Fairy Aesthetics

34:21 Designing with Mischief and Allure

35:18 Combining Modern Medieval Looks

36:02 Personalizing Your Creative Process

36:50 Generating New Ideas and Inspirations

39:37 Astrology and Style

40:39 Incorporating Dark Aesthetics

47:59 Fashion and Illustration Journey

53:37 Perfume and Archetypes

55:45 Astrology Style Guides and Consultations

01:00:11 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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