For the longest, I (Stevie) thought simply confessing my love and submission to God and my husband was all it took. It broke me. I was lost in my own idea and identity of what it meant while unknowingly, selfishly controlling every moment of how "submission" was supposed to look to me. Xo and I tear down a harmful interpretation of submission that has crippled countless marriages. We share my journey from feeling crushed in my own reality, liberating truth of what God actually calls wives to, and how authentic submission empowers both partners.

I (Xo) used to dismiss my wife's overwhelm as "a phase" or "she's just processing". What I didn;t see was the crushing mental and emotional loss she (Stevie) was carrying - her limits, our triggers, and the breaking point that almost took her out. In this convo, we discuss how a lack of understanding capacity, limits, and triggers can destroy Kingdom marriage, and the hard lessons we learned about truly seeing and supporting one another.NOTE💭 Overwhelem isn't a weakness; it's a warning.DROP IN THE COMMENTS🗨 Wives: What's the biggest invisible burden you wish your husband truly understood? 🗨 Husbands: What did you learn about your wife's capacity?