Episodios

  • 128. What If I Am Not Attracted To The Good Guy?
    May 22 2025

    Can you make yourself fall for someone? Or rather - can you increase chances that it will happen, if you are a good match? This is what this episode is about. Taking charge of your emotional life and facilitating attraction when its possible, and when you know the guy would be a good match.

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    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    12 m
  • 127. How To Stop Feeling Attracted To The Wrong Men
    May 15 2025

    In this episode you'll learn what attraction really is and how you can influence who you are attracted to so you can recognize when you are about to fall for the emotionally unavailable guy, that isn't a good match for you, and stop yourself before you react on this attraction.

    Book a free 45 min call here:
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    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    14 m
  • 126. The Myth About Love At First Sight (replay)
    May 8 2025

    Do you believe that true love starts at first sight? And that for a connection to turn into the ideal relationship, sparks and attraction must be there on the very first date? Then you have to listen to this episode where I poke a whole in the myth and share the data on love at first sight, and tell you what my alternative take on this is: Curiosity at first sight!

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    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    17 m
  • 125. How To Let Go Of Someone
    May 1 2025

    If you are struggling to let go of someone - after a breakup, or even a situationship, you want to listen to this episode, where I give you the simple shift you need to start moving forward. Letting go is a decision, and you get to make that decision when you want, instead of waiting for it to happen.

    Book a free 45 min call here:
    https://calendly.com/laerke/confidence-call

    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    11 m
  • 124. Three Surprising Ways To Move On After Breakup
    Apr 24 2025

    Once you have passed the initial stages of grief after a breakup and you still don't feel at your best, but you know something needs to happen to move yourself forward, then you need this episode. Here I give you ideas to 3 action steps you can take, concrete things to do, that will help you get a new perspective on things, see yourself in a different light and create something new in your life.

    Book a free 45 min call here:
    https://calendly.com/laerke/confidence-call

    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    16 m
  • 123. What Happens Inside The Emotionally Unavailable Person?
    Apr 17 2025

    We talk a lot of talk about emotionally unavailable men, and how to recognise the signs and avoid getting involved in someone who isn't emotionally available. But what really happens inside that person? What are the psychological reasons for this emotional unavailability? This is what I dive into in this episode plus give you some tips to navigate dating or relationships with emotionally unavailable people.

    Book a free 45 min call here:
    https://calendly.com/laerke/confidence-call

    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    19 m
  • 122. The Commitment Fear That No One Talks About
    Apr 10 2025

    Fear of commitment is typically something we associate with emotionally unavailable men, right? Well, think again, because a lot of women have commitments fear, but it just shows up in a different way and can be more subtle. In this episode I share the signs of commitment fear in women, the deeper reasons behind this fear and how you can work on overcoming it.

    Check also The Secret Garden, episode 74: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2100425/episodes/14864556

    Book a free 45 min call here:
    https://calendly.com/laerke/confidence-call

    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    30 m
  • 121. Seven Steps to Let Go Of Anxious Attachment
    Apr 3 2025

    If you feel that dating is an emotional rollercoaster—and you find yourself overthinking, constantly checking your phone, and feeling a sense of panic when someone takes too long to reply - or if you are consumed with fear that the person you're interested in will suddenly lose interest or abandon you - then you might have an anxious attachment style. In this episode, I'm diving into what anxious attachment really is, where it comes from, and how you can start shifting away from it. I’ll walk you through a seven-step process to help you become more secure and move from anxiety and fear to confidence and ease, so you can finally enjoy dating.

    Book a free 45 min call here:
    https://calendly.com/laerke/confidence-call

    Test Yourself in the Love Confidence Quiz: https://www.laerkenielsencoaching.com/love-conf-quiz

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    19 m
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