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S2 E26 — “Coffee, Petals, and the Art of Figuring It Out”

When we recorded this episode, she had just started talking about opening her own flower shop. It was a soft idea back then—a maybe, a someday. A few months later, she did it. No big announcement, no dramatic moment—just quiet action. And I think that says everything about the kind of person she is. She’s the calm in the chaos. The warmth in a cup of black coffee. A cat who curls up where the light hits just right. She feels like a K-pop lyric you don’t totally understand, but it hits anyway.

This episode isn’t just one conversation—it’s twenty layered on top of each other. We touched on everything:

The lie that time heals all wounds.

The suffocating pressure of other people’s expectations.

The guilt we carry, the joy we chase, the apologies we skip.

What it means to love truly vs romantically.

Why we overrate last words.

Why history is louder than mystery, or maybe the other way around.

Why the first thought might actually be the most honest one.

The difference between failing and quitting—and how we confuse the two.

We talked about 11 things and then 11 more.

About not needing to be liked to be real.

About parenting and how deeply it can mess us up.

About basic human kindness and how rare it feels.

We talked about chasing dopamine, the anxiety that comes with being alive, and how life moves so fast you forget who someone even was—or who you used to be.

And somewhere in all of it, she reminded me:

You don’t figure life out by having a plan.

You figure it out by living through it.

By hurting. By healing. By trying again.

This episode might not be linear, but neither is life. It’s a collection of thoughts from two people who are still in the middle of it all. Still searching, still growing, still asking better questions.

Listen when you’re ready to stop pretending you have it all together.

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