In this powerful and moving conversation, host Pam Feinberg-Rivkin welcomes guests John Lipscomb and Adrienne Lugo, co-authors of The Painting and the Piano, a memoir of trauma, addiction, healing, and love.

John and Adrienne share the deeply personal journeys that shaped them — from childhood abuse and addiction to recovery and ultimately, finding each other. With raw honesty and heart, they reflect on the pain of the past, the resilience it took to rise, and how their love story became a story of transformation.

This episode is a testament to the power of truth, the strength of the human spirit, and the healing that can come from telling your story.

A must-listen for anyone on a journey of recovery, resilience, or rediscovery.

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What happens when the media sensationalizes a struggle — but forgets to show the healing? In this unforgettable episode, Alisa Fliss shares the powerful truth behind her journey with eating disorders, recovery, and being featured in an HBO documentary that left out the most important part: her rise. From childhood experiences shaped by mixed messages about body image to a military career that masked deeper pain, Alisa’s story dismantles assumptions and brings voice to what recovery really looks like.

Together, we explore the messy, unfiltered reality of healing — and the cultural silence around it. Alisa opens up about trauma, resilience, and what it means to become a role model in the face of stigma. If you or someone you love has ever felt unseen in their struggle, this conversation is the mirror and the map. Inside, you’ll discover a perspective that challenges norms, celebrates inner strength, and refuses to stay silent about what truly matters.

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In this powerful and heart-stirring episode of Resilient Butterfly, Dr. Louise Stanger opens up about the defining losses in her life—from her father’s suicide at age seven to the sudden death of her infant son and first husband. Through deeply personal stories, she reveals how pain shaped her path but never defined her spirit. Louise shares how grief, when met with courage, connection, and honest reflection, can transform into a life of purpose, passion, and healing.

As an interventionist, academic, and author, Louise brings a lifetime of wisdom to the mic—offering a roadmap for anyone navigating trauma, aging, or the everyday challenge of simply moving forward. From writing life-affirming books to supporting widows of 9/11, her journey is a masterclass in resilience. If you’ve ever felt broken by life’s curveballs, this episode will remind you that healing is possible—and joy can still live on the other side of loss.

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At just 17, John Katona’s life changed forever when he fell asleep at the wheel and awoke paralyzed. But what could have ended his future became the beginning of an extraordinary journey. In this powerful episode of Resilient Butterfly, John opens up about surviving a life-altering car crash, navigating a broken insurance system, and fighting a five-year legal battle—representing himself—to fund his independence.

Now a successful music producer with a state-of-the-art studio, John shares how he rebuilt not just his body and career, but his purpose. From engineering cars at GM to engineering soundscapes with his record label, he’s proving that resilience and resourcefulness can turn unimaginable setbacks into a soundtrack of success. This is the story of grit, genius, and how music became his movement.

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In this deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, Dr. John Dyben—Chief Clinical Officer at Hanley Foundation—shares groundbreaking insights from over two decades on the front lines of addiction recovery. From the life-changing Casa Flores program supporting pregnant women with substance use disorders, to innovative care for first responders and a one-of-a-kind therapeutic experience for children ages 7–12, this conversation unpacks how healing an individual can ripple through entire families and generations.

We also explore the science behind spirituality: how prayer, meditation, and gratitude literally rewire the brain, and why peace—not happiness—is what most of us are truly chasing. If you’ve ever wondered how neuroscience and neurotheology meet in real-life recovery or what it really takes to break cycles of trauma and addiction, this is the episode to hear. It’s a masterclass in compassion, brain science, and hope.

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In this powerful and heart-centered episode of Resilient Butterfly, we sit down with the extraordinary Denise Klein—CEO, co-owner, and soul behind Milestones Ranch Malibu, one of the most respected dual-diagnosis treatment centers in the country. From her early days in in-home therapy to 35 years of pioneering compassionate care, Denise shares how her personal journey shaped her life’s work in addiction and mental health recovery.

Together, we explore why real healing must include the family system, how trauma and shame ripple across generations, and why “quick fixes” in rehab are failing us. Denise also gives us an exclusive look at her upcoming book The Truth About Rehab, aiming to restore clarity, humanity, and connection to the recovery process. If you’ve ever wondered what real healing looks like—from the inside out—this conversation is your roadmap.

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In this heartfelt and deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, we sit down with internationally recognized counselor, author, and child advocate Jerry Moe—the man who changed the way we think about addiction and children. From his personal story as a teenager navigating a home shadowed by alcoholism to becoming the visionary behind groundbreaking children’s programs at the Betty Ford Center and beyond, Jerry brings raw honesty, wisdom, and decades of experience to the mic.

Together, we explore how addiction isolates but recovery rebuilds, why family systems must heal together, and how tools like the Seven C’s and the Sesame Street Parental Addiction Initiative are helping kids everywhere feel seen, heard, and safe. This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a call to honor resilience, celebrate generational healing, and recognize the power of giving children a voice in recovery.

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In this powerful episode Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Matthew Tomain—Irish-born entrepreneur, film producer, and creator of The Evolution of Success. Once a young property investor riding high, Matthew lost everything during the 2008 recession and quietly battled alcoholism while appearing “just fine” on the outside. What followed was a complete unraveling—and a remarkable rebirth.

Matthew shares how embracing sobriety, redefining success, and following his intuition led him to create a new life filled with purpose, global travel, creative work, and emotional freedom. From standing in unemployment lines to interviewing Law of Attraction leaders like Jack Canfield and Bob Doyle, Matthew’s journey is living proof that it’s never too late to begin again—with honesty, intention, and heart.

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