Do you find yourself attracted to someone who is the opposite of you on many different levels? Are the differences that first intrigued you now driving you mad? Opposites attract because differences can create balance, intrigue, and growth. One partner’s strengths may complement the other’s weaknesses, fostering teamwork and mutual learning. These contrasts keep relationships dynamic and interesting, offering fresh perspectives and expanding experiences. While challenges may arise, the push and pull between opposing traits can deepen understanding, emotional connection, and long-term compatibility.

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Do you have a pattern of being attracted to a bad boy or bad girl? Do you find yourself easily bored when dating a so-called good guy? We’re often attracted to “bad boys” or “bad girls” because they exude confidence, mystery, and rebellion—qualities that feel thrilling and intense. Their unpredictability creates emotional highs that mimic passion. For some, unresolved trauma or low self-worth plays a role, while others are drawn to the challenge of being “the one” who changes them. It’s excitement, but often unsustainable.

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Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Have you noticed you are more critical og of your partner when you are in a low mood? Does being in a low mood affect the quality of your interactions with others? Being in a low mood can strain relationships by causing withdrawal, irritability, and reduced communication. It may lead to emotional unavailability, misunderstandings, and a lack of affection. Partners might feel neglected or blamed, creating distance and tension. When our mood clouds our perception, even minor issues can escalate, weakening trust, connection, and the overall emotional health of the relationship

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Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.