Looking for insights to help improve your decision making around money and love? I had the pleasure of discussing this, her book Money And Love, and so much more with Abby Davisson on Episode 95 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

How Abby and her future husband took Professor Myra Strober’s, her co-author, class at Stanford,

Challenging the conventional wisdom that money and love decisions should be treated separately,

The 5 Cs framework for decision making,

The importance of communication and listening to the other person,

Don’t make assumptions and be honest about what you’re looking for,

Trying to understand the potential consequences of your actions,

People most regret the risks that they don’t take,

How using a decision tree can help enhance your decision making, and

Finding a potential partner.

Abby is the founding CEO of the Money and Love Institute and co-author of Money and Love with Stanford Professor Myra Strober. Prior to launching the Institute her career included almost a decade at global retailer Gap Inc., where she served as president of the Gap Foundation and co-founded the company’s employee resource group for parents.

She serves as an alumni career advisor and coach at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business and has a BA from Yale University and an MBA and MA in Education from Stanford University.

She currently lives with her husband and two sons in San Francisco and loves dark chocolate and tennis.

People & Resources Mentioned

Daniel Kahneman

Daniel Pink

Baba Shiv

Contact Abby

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/abbydavisson/

Website: https://www.abbydavisson.com/

Substack: https://abbydavisson.substack.com/

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Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

Newsletter: https://reframeandresetyourcareer.substack.com/

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 18th June.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

Want to learn more about how you can build your presence and supercharge your career? I had the pleasure of discussing this, her book Unforgettable Presence, and so much more with Lorraine K. Lee on Episode 94 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

How Lorraine started working in the tech industry,

The insights she gained from her tech career,

How to bounce back from layoff,

How introverts can succeed in their career,

Strategies to optimise LinkedIn for job search and your personal brand,

Shifting your mindset and being clear about your aspirations,

What is presence?,

Building your personal brand with the EPIC framework,

Ways to improve your communication & public speaking,

Using self-distancing techniques when making decisions about yourself and

How to get promoted.

Lorraine is an award-winning global keynote speaker, an instructor for Stanford Continuing Studies and LinkedIn Learning, and the author of Unforgettable Presence: Get Seen, Gain Influence, and Catapult Your Career (Wiley, 2025). She is recognized as a LinkedIn Top Voice and has more than 300,000+ LinkedIn followers and over a decade of experience leading editorial teams at the world’s top tech firms.

Lorraine has been invited as a guest speaker to some of the world’s most recognizable brands including Zoom, Cisco, Amazon, ASICS, Hilton, and McKinsey and Company. She covers a wide range of topics including creating engaging virtual presentations, growing your presence on LinkedIn, effectively communicating in a virtual world, leading collaborative remote and distributed teams that thrive, and designing impactful virtual and hybrid meetings.

Before starting her own company, Lorraine was a founding editor at companies like Prezi, SlideShare, and LinkedIn. In these roles, she collaborated with global business leaders and helped launch core products including LinkedIn Daily Rundown and LinkedIn Newsletters. Lorraine has been featured in publications including Forbes, Inc., Bloomberg, ReadWrite, and Entrepreneur, and has also been a guest on many podcasts.

She received her BSJ from Northwestern’s Medill School of Journalism and currently resides in San Francisco.

People & Resources Mentioned

Jenny Wood

Matt Abrahams

Contact Lorraine

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lorraineklee/

Website: https://lorraineklee.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorraineklee/

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

Newsletter: https://reframeandresetyourcareer.substack.com/

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I have published a new edition of my newsletter on Substack, link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 21st May.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

Looking to learn how leaders can continue to excel whilst taking care of their own & their team’s wellbeing? I had the pleasure of discussing this, her new book Emotionally Charged, and so much more with Dina Denham Smith on Episode 93 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

Being open to new experiences can lead to opportunities,

How to get unstuck & get promoted,

Strategies to help leaders cope with the emotional demands of leadership.

What is emotional labour?

Ways to motivate your team, even when you have low energy,

The importance of self care for leaders,

How to bounce back from emotionally demanding events,

The benefits of journaling to help recover from redundancy or other setbacks,

Pay attention to your emotions, they can provide important signals and information,

Insights into decision making and

The recovery paradox.

Dina is a seasoned leader and executive coach with a 25-year proven track record in helping people and teams excel. Dina’s clients include senior leaders and teams at premier brands such as Adobe, PwC, Gilead, Gap, Sephora, Goldman Sachs, Google, and Netflix; high-growth companies like Dropbox, DocuSign, and Stripe; and PE-backed start-ups shaping the world.

Dina has written over 60 articles on leadership and career success for the Harvard Business Review, Fast Company, and Forbes and is frequently featured in international media outlets such as the Wall Street Journal, Newsweek, Business Insider, and the BBC.

She is the lead author of Emotionally Charged: How to Lead in the New World of Work (Oxford Press). An East Coast transplant, Dina now lives in the SF Bay Area with her husband, kids, and two spoiled pups. Outside of work, she is a competitive equestrian, avid skier and reader, foodie, and travel enthusiast.

People & Resources Mentioned

Man’s Search For Meaning – Viktor Frankl

James W. Pennebaker

Dr Gabija Toleikyte

Contact Dina

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dina-denham-smith/

Website: https://www.dinadsmith.com/

X (Twitter): https://x.com/DinaDSmith

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I now have a new website, see link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 23rd April.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

Want to learn more about the 9 traits that can help you in your life and career? I had the pleasure of discussing this, her book Wild Courage and so much more with Jenny Wood on Episode 92 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

How she overcame her doubts to ask out her husband on the subway,

Showing resilience to land her job at Google,

Her book and the 9 traits that can help you in your life and career,

The Spotlight Effect,

Being weird and standing out from the crowd,

The benefits of being selfish (sometimes) and how this helped a vocalist get her fair share from a smash hit record,

Saying yes to the big projects and cutting back on the NAP (not actually promotable) work,

Learning to say no,

Improving your verbal communication skills,

Identifying and leaning into your strengths/ power assets, and

Building your personal brand.

Jenny spent 18 years at Google climbing the ranks from entry-level to executive, most recently running a large operations team that helps drive billions of advertising revenue a year.

She created one of Google's largest career development programs ever, loved by tens of thousands of employees worldwide. She is now a speaker and the author of a new book Wild Courage: Go After What You Want And Get It.

She earned her B.A. in Economics & International Business at Brandeis and was a research associate at Harvard Business School. She drinks tea and is a trained pilot, living in Boulder, Colorado with her husband and two kids.

People & Resources Mentioned

Carol Dweck – Mindset

Clare Torry

Vanessa Patrick - The Power Of Saying No

Contact Jenny

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennyilles/

Website: https://itsjennywood.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsjennywood/

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I now have a new website, see link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 9th April.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

How can optimism help transform your life and career? I had the pleasure of discussing this, his new book The Bright Side and so much more with Sumit Paul-Choudhury on Episode 91 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

How Sumit developed his leadership skills and gained responsibility early,

The difficulties that come with leadership and how to manage them,

Why should you be optimistic in such a difficult world,

The Stockdale Paradox,

Unrealistic versus dispositional optimism,

Optimism and growth mindset,

Take your shot, you may succeed,

Fatalism versus controlling your future, and

Learning lessons from the past.

Sumit is an astrophysicist-turned-journalist, former editor in chief of New Scientist magazine and has served as a judge for the Baillie Gifford Prize (then Samuel Johnson Prize), the Wellcome Prize and the Costa Book Awards. The Bright Side is his first book.

He currently runs Alternity, a creative studio dedicated to what could, should and might be: alternative histories, social experiments and speculative futures. He trained as a physicist at Imperial College, where he earned a first-class B.Sc. and has an M.Sc. in Mathematics at Queen Mary & Westfield.

People & Resources Mentioned

Gottfried Leibniz

Oedipus Rex – Sophocles

Jim Collins – Good To Great

Voltaire - Candide

Contact Sumit

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sumitpc/

Website: https://alternity.com/about-sumit/

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I now have a new website, see link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 9th April.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

Looking for ideas to develop your creative process, create inspiring content and develop your online presence ? I had the pleasure of discussing this and so much more with David Hartley on Episode 90 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

How a cold email helped him connect with a well known content creator,

Focus on providing value through your content, your audience will find you,

Why it’s crucial to find your own voice but it may take time,

David’s creative process and how he generates ideas,

The importance of personal branding and creating a digital footprint,

David’s top ideas for starting a YouTube channel,

Take action, don’t overthink things,

Focus on being consistent and enjoying the process not the results, and

The power of storytelling.

David is a London-based musician and educational content creator with a passion for making music education accessible to all. His journey began with classical guitar studies at the Guildhall School of Music & Drama, followed by a Master's degree in Music at King's College London.

A skilled educator, David has translated his passion for music into a successful online platform where his engaging videos have garnered millions of views, he currently has over 125k YT subscribers and over 55k on TikTok. His content explores a diverse range of musical topics, presented in a way that resonates with learners of all levels and backgrounds.

Beyond his educational endeavors, David remains an active musician, expressing his creativity through classical guitar performance, songwriting, and electronic music composition.

Here is a clip from the episode where we talk about the benefits of sending call emails and how it helped him connect with a successful YouTuber, Ali Abdaal.

People & Resources Mentioned

The Game Of Tennis – W Timothy Gallwey

Ali Abdaal

Contact David

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-hartley-4a470086/

Website: https://www.musicwithdavid.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@davidhartley94

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@davidhartley94

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I now have a new website, see link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 12th March.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

Looking for insights on how neuroscience can help your job search, improve your decision making and manage high stake situations at work? I had the pleasure of discussing this and so much more with Gunes Italiaander on Episode 89 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

What the film The Truman Show can teach us about career and personal development,

Why she moved on from studying for a neuroscience PhD at Oxford to the corporate world,

How she achieved success in her career but eventually had to face up to and manage burnout,

Self care and the benefits of taking time for yourself,

The importance of controlling what you can control,

Strategies to help deal with high pressure situations at work like interviews or presentations,

Bouncing back from adversity,

Understanding what success and professional happiness means to you,

Improving your decision making and understanding the role that emotions play and

How to manage the challenges when moving from middle to senior management.

Gunes is a purpose-driven leader and coach with a rich and varied career that spans neuroscience, data science, product management, and business strategy. Her journey reflects a deep passion for understanding how people think, work, and lead—and creating systems and solutions that drive meaningful change.

Her 15+ year professional story began in neuroscience, where she explored emotional decision-making, behavioral economics, and game theory, earning her a unique perspective on human behavior under pressure. From there, she transitioned into data science at Vodafone, where she solved complex marketing and business challenges through predictive models with a customer experience lens.

Eager to bridge technology and human interaction, Gunes shifted into product and design, working at Philips and IDEO to craft innovative, human-centric solutions. She then combined her technical and creative expertise at BCG X (digital ventures), where she played a key leadership role in building and scaling startups for Fortune 100 companies for many years.

Currently, Gunes serves as VP of Product and Engineering at Worksome, a scale-up that empowers enterprises to work seamlessly with independent contractors. She leads cross-functional teams across product, engineering, and design, driving strategy and execution to scale a platform that is used across the globe by some of the biggest enterprise companies.

People & Resources Mentioned

Daniel Kahneman

Antoni Damasio

Contact Gunes

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gunesitaliaander/

Email: gunes.italiaander@gmail.com

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I now have a new website, see link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 12th February.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*

Looking for ideas to get your job search going or strategies to help you advance in your current company? I had the pleasure of discussing this and so much more with my good friend Tammy Gooler Loeb, the award winning host of the Work From The Inside Out podcast and author of Work from the Inside Out: Break Through Nine Common Obstacles and Design a Career That Fulfills You, on Episode 88 of the Reframe & Reset Your Career podcast.

In this episode, we will learn about:

The importance of mindset when approaching your job search,

The benefits of having one or more accountability partners,

How creating a regular routine can help you navigate the job search process,

How content creation can help build your brand and digital footprint,

Ideas to enhance your CV,

Strategies to help your interview preparation,

Potential questions to ask your interviewer at the end of an interview,

How to engage with your manager about potential ways to advance,

Engaging with your internal network to look for potential opportunities,

Viewing yourself as the CEO of your career and taking ownership of your career development, and

Regularly documenting your achievements so you have compelling evidence when asking for a pay rise or promotion.

Tammy is an Executive and Career Coach, Speaker, Facilitator and the author of the award winning book Work from the Inside Out: Break Through Nine Common Obstacles and Design a Career That Fulfills You. She is passionate about working with clients to achieve growth and deeper satisfaction in their careers and work relationships. She does this by providing individual coaching, training, speaking programs and team facilitation in a wide variety of industries and professions. Tammy brings over 25 years of professional experience to her work and is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach by the Coaches Training Institute and a graduate of the Co-Active Space Leadership Program. She holds a B.A. in Psychology from Hampshire College and an MBA from Boston University. Prior to establishing her practice and Tammy Gooler Loeb Coaching & Consulting, Tammy held a variety of positions in mental health services, higher education administration, public policy analysis and fundraising. Her practical knowledge and experience in organizational and leadership development, workplace communications, and change management builds a relatable relationship with clients striving for higher performance results.

People & Resources Mentioned

Dr Robert Cialdini

Mac Prichard

Dorie Clark

Contact Tammy

Website: https://www.tammygoolerloeb.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tammygoolerloeb/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tammygoolerloeb/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TammyGoolerLoebCoaching/

Reframe & Reset Your Career Resources & Contact Info

Website: https://www.harshaboralessa.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ReframeResetYourCareer

LinkedIn Page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/reframe-reset-your-career/?viewAsMember=true

E-mail - reframeandresetyourcareer@harshaboralessa.com

Thank you for your continued support of Reframe & Reset Your Career, I do appreciate it. I now have a new website, see link above, please do check it out, I hope you find it helpful.

It would be great to hear from you, the listeners, and your thoughts about the podcast, YouTube channel or anything else, it's always a pleasure to hear your views. I have had some great reviews but not had any way of responding. The next episode will be available on Weds 15th January.

*Reframe & Reset Your Career, including any comments made by the host and guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute advice of any description, including but not restricted to financial, legal, investing or medical advice.*