In this follow-up to our origin story, we’re fast-forwarding to the real adventure: marriage, babies, and building a life together from scratch. In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we open up about the early days of having nothing, having kids right away, and learning to laugh, cry, and grow together over 12 years of marriage. With four kids, countless memories, and plenty of chaos, we’re sharing 12 things we’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—about staying in love, fighting for connection, and making faith and fun central to family life. Whether you're newly married, in the thick of parenting, or just need a reminder that real love takes work (and is totally worth it), this episode is for you.

In this fun and honest episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we’re going back to the beginning—sharing our origin story. From our childhoods and quirks to an embarrassing moment or two, we take you behind the scenes of who we were before we became “Ben and Kimi.”

You’ll hear how we met in college, what made us notice each other, and how our relationship began. Whether you’re new here or a longtime listener, this episode is all about connection, laughter, and a reminder that every strong relationship starts somewhere.

Is your marriage running like a well-oiled machine—or more like a chaotic circus? In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into the idea of weekly marriage meetings and why they might just be the best thing you’ve never tried. Ben draws parallels from his workplace where weekly team meetings help align goals, celebrate wins, and tackle obstacles—and makes the case that marriages deserve the same intentionality.

We discuss how a simple 20-minute weekly check-in can help couples:
✅ Stay on the same page with logistics
✅ Plan intentional date nights
✅ Create fun, meaningful moments with the kids
✅ Address small issues before they become big problems

A "marriage meeting" might not sound sexy, but the results sure are. Tune in for practical tips, real talk, and a fresh perspective on building a marriage that thrives—on purpose.