Welcome to Real Life Ministry. Have you ever had questions about how Christianity relates to philosophy, other religions, or the evil in this world? On this episode, Pastor Ryan sits down with Pastor Thomas Lee, a professor and philosopher, to discuss these pressing issues. Please visit NorthValley.org for sermons or reallifeministry.us for podcasts.

Join Pastor Ryan and his wife, Leslie, on the Real Life Ministry podcast for a lively, faith-filled exploration of keeping your marriage both spicy and sacred! In “Keeping It Spicy and Sacred in Marriage,” this dynamic husband-and-wife duo unpacks the God-designed gift of intimacy with biblical wisdom and relatable stories. Rooted in Song of Songs, 1 Corinthians 7, and Proverbs, they introduce the “Five Ps” of sex in marriage—Procreation, Peace, Protection, Pleasure, and Partnership—highlighting how it reduces stress, strengthens fidelity, sparks joy, and deepens connection, while building a godly legacy! Scriptures like Song of Songs 4:10 and 1 Corinthians 7:5 anchor their insights in God’s Word.

Ryan and Leslie address real intimacy challenges, like kids, health issues, stress, and sex drive differences, with practical solutions such as medical help or counseling (Proverbs 4:20-22). They share actionable tips to keep intimacy thriving—open communication, scheduling “Magic” and “maintenance” moments, and embracing adventure (Song of Songs 7:11-12). Expect some laughs, PG-13 anecdotes (like their trailhead escapade!), and firm, non-negotiable values like purity and respect. This episode is perfect for couples eager to honor God in their marriage, to spice it up while keeping it sacred! For more podcasts, visit us online at RealLifeMinistry.us.

Recommended Resources

Books:
- Sheet Music by Kevin Leman
- Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
- The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy and Kathy Keller
- Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
- Intimate Issues by Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus

- Event: FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember Marriage Conference (FamilyLife.com)
- Podcasts:
- FamilyLife Today by FamilyLife
- Focus on the Family with Jim Daly
- Java with Juli by Authentic Intimacy

Welcome to Real Life Ministry. On this episode, we discuss how God has given us all the same opportunity to be stewards in His Kingdom. Join us as we discuss the importance of generosity and how we can foster hearts of giving in our communities.