Episodios

  • On Menopause with Meg Mathews
    May 24 2025

    If you think menopause is just hot flashes and mood swings, Meg Mathews is here to set you straight. In this unfiltered episode, Meg opens up about how menopause knocked her sideways—crippling anxiety, misdiagnosis, zero libido—and how it took years before anyone mentioned hormones. That journey led to Meg’s Menopause, a platform busting taboos and pushing for real education, access, and self-respect.

    We cover it all—testosterone, bone health, dry everything, and the identity shifts no one warns you about. Meg tells it like it is: women aren’t broken, they’re just not being told the truth.

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    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    15 m
  • Fatherhood Without the Patriarchy with Jordan Shapiro
    May 17 2025

    What does it really mean to be a good dad in a world that’s (finally) rethinking power, privilege, and gender? Jordan Shapiro offers a fresh framework—one that demands more than just ‘helping out’ or being ‘the fun one.’ In this episode, we talk about radical inclusivity, critical consciousness, and why patriarchal manliness needs a total rethink. Jordan doesn’t dodge the difficult stuff—he names the creepy undercurrents of the “daddy as first boyfriend” trope and unpacks why so many men feel attacked when the cultural tide changes. We cover big ideas, big shifts, and the kind of inner work modern fatherhood really requires.

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    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    15 m
  • She’s Not Selfish, She’s Self-Full with Meredith Masony
    May 10 2025

    We’re told to be selfless. To give everything for our children. To die to ourselves for the sake of being a “good” mother and parent. But what if that’s not the answer at all?

    In this fierce, funny, and deeply real conversation, Danusia is joined by Meredith Masony —a woman who came back from a health crisis with one loud, clear truth: she was done putting herself last. They talk about the myth of the perfect mum, what happens when you carry the entire domestic load for a decade, and why sometimes the most radical thing a mother can do is say, “It’s my turn.”

    This episode is a battle cry for any woman who’s been told she’s selfish for wanting more. If that’s you? Tune in. We saved you a seat.

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    Credits:

    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    15 m
  • From Homeless Teen to Entrepreneur with Simon Squibb
    May 3 2025

    This episode, I speak with Simon Squibb, founder of HelpBnk and author of What’s Your Dream? We dive into cultivating luck (hint: it’s not random), why desperation can be a creative superpower, and how his mother kicking him out of the house became the very thing that made him.

    Simon shares his raw take on privilege, failure, and the myth of the A-grade life. We talk resilience, drive, and what it means to burn the boats and go all in—even if you don’t know how to hold a garden spade.

    You’ll leave this one fired up. Maybe even rethinking your whole idea of risk.

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    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    15 m
  • Creating an Equitable Home with Eve Rodsky
    Apr 26 2025

    In this episode I sit down with Eve Rodsky, author of the groundbreaking book Fair Play, to discuss the often invisible and unequal labour dynamics that play out in our homes. We get into why women frequently become the "she-fault" parent, shouldering the brunt of domestic responsibilities and emotional labour, often at the expense of their own well-being and careers.

    Eve doesn't just identify the problem; she offers solutions. Drawing on her own experiences and extensive research, she introduces us to the Fair Play system, a practical and insightful approach to rebalancing domestic labour and creating a more harmonious partnership. We explore how this system helped Eve and her husband transform their own relationship and learn how it can work for others.

    We also discuss the crucial role of communication and boundary setting in achieving a truly equitable partnership. Eve shares invaluable insights on how to have those difficult conversations, break free from societal conditioning, and reclaim our time.

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the demands of modern life and wants to create a more balanced and fulfilling relationship.

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    Credits:

    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    15 m
  • Female Masturbation with Hollie McNish
    Apr 19 2025

    In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia gets into into a juicy conversation with Hollie McNish—award-winning poet, author, and performer. The focus? Female masturbation, sexuality, and shedding the centuries of shame surrounding women’s pleasure. One of Hollie’s books, Slug and Other Things I’ve Been Told to Hate, serves as the jumping-off point for this honest chat.

    Danusia and Hollie cover it all, from why society can't handle women who prioritise their own pleasure, to surprising moments of erotic awakenings (hairdressers and dentists, anyone?). Hollie shares deeply personal reflections, like conversations with her late grandmother who thought orgasms were mythical creatures. They also explore why certain words—like "moist" and "vulva"—trigger deep discomfort rooted in societal shame.

    You won’t want to miss this one—it’s time to dismantle taboos, one orgasm at a time!

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    Credits:

    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    14 m
  • Switching Gender Roles with Priscilla McKinney
    Apr 12 2025

    What happens when a woman is the breadwinner and her husband takes the lead at home? Apparently, a lot of raised eyebrows, unsolicited opinions, and a bizarre mix of pity and praise. Entrepreneur and mother Priscilla McKinney joins me to talk about flipping the script on traditional gender roles, how she and her husband Steve made the switch, and what it really means to thrive in a setup that works for them—not society’s outdated rulebook.

    We get into the hilarity of watching people fumble over the idea of a stay-at-home dad (spoiler: they either worship him or assume he’s unemployed), the brutal weight of being the sole financial provider, and the power of letting go—of guilt, control, and the need to know everything about your child’s life.

    This one is for anyone who's ever questioned the status quo, felt the pressure to do it all, or needed a reminder that you get to decide what your family dynamic looks like. Listen in and prepare to unlearn a few things.

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    Credits:

    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    15 m
  • Sex Toys with Sarah Forbes
    Apr 5 2025

    Sex toys: ancient history, cultural icon, and—if Sarah Forbes has anything to say about it—essential to our understanding of sexuality. This week, Danusia sits down with the anthropologist and former curator of the Museum of Sex in New York to talk about the rise (and rise) of sex toys, the deep-rooted taboos around pleasure, and why we need to stop acting like vibrators were invented last week.

    We get into it all: the women who curate collections of sex toys like others collect fine wine, the psychology of private vs. shame, and why investing in high-end pleasure tech might just be self-care at its finest. Oh, and then we take a detour into the world of sex dolls—because, of course.

    Expect frank talk, fascinating insights, and a solid reminder that knowing your body is power. Let’s put the stigma to bed, shall we?

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    Credits:

    • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben

    • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz

    • Cover art by Anthony Oram

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    14 m
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