Meltdowns aren’t always what they seem, and your child’s silence might be saying more than you think. In this episode, we explore the hidden connection between communication struggles and emotional blow-ups. Therapist Holly Blanc Moses joins us to unpack the subtle signals parents often miss, the assumptions that can get in the way, and the small shifts that can transform your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind the shutdowns, this conversation will make you think twice and inspire you to try something new.

What to expect in this episode:

• Why meltdowns may be signs of unmet needs instead of intentional behavior
• How communication breaks down when a child doesn’t feel safe or understood
• The surprising impact of modeling your own emotions in everyday moments
• How one word like “because” can shift a shutdown into a conversation
• What happens when you stop labeling and start connecting instead
  
  

About Holly Blanc Moses, M.S., LPA, LCMHC

Holly is a Licensed Psychological Associate and Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, with over 27 years of experience in the field. A neurodivergent psychologist and mom of two, she specializes in supporting children, teens, and families navigating ADHD, autism, anxiety, and emotional regulation. Holly is also the host of The Autism ADHD Podcast and founder of Crossvine Counseling.

Connect with Holly

• Website: Crossvine Counseling | Holly Blanc Moses | Let's Connect!
• Podcast: The Autism ADHD Podcast
• Facebook: Holly Blanc Moses
• Instagram: @hollyblancmoses
• LinkedIn: Holly Blanc Moses

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Getting into college isn’t just about grades. It’s about finding the right fit emotionally, socially, and academically. In this episode, Dr. Pamela Ellis shares how families can approach the high school-to-college transition with more clarity, less stress, and renewed confidence. From building trust with your teen to letting go of outdated expectations, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on what success really looks like for them and for you.

What to expect in this episode:

• The overlooked framework that helps teens find their perfect college fit
• Why believing in your kid might matter more than their GPA
• The surprising reason parents struggle most with letting go
• What many families get wrong about gap years and how to use them right
• How to support your teen’s independence without losing your influence

About Dr. Pamela Ellis
Dr. Pamela is the founder of Compass College Advisory and a Stanford-educated expert in the high school-to-college transition. With decades of experience as a researcher, advisor, and parent, she helps families navigate the college admissions process with confidence, clarity, and heart. Known as “The Education Doctor,” Dr. Ellis empowers complex kids and their parents to find the right college fit without the stress.

Connect with Dr. Pamela

• Website: Compass College Advisory
• LinkedIn: Pamela Ellis, PhD, MBA

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• It’s All About Control: Are You Ready?
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• Helping Young Adults get back on Track https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620
• Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Future
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They’re adults now, but they’re still stuck—and nothing you try seems to help. You push, they resist. You back off, they stall. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and unsure how to actually support your young adult, this episode is for you. We’re talking about what really gets in the way, and how a small shift in your approach can make a big difference.

What to expect in this episode:

• The hidden reasons your child may appear “lazy” or unmotivated
• What to do instead of pushing your agenda when they feel stuck
• Redefining your role from director to collaborator
• Understanding the 30 percent developmental delay and what it means for your 25-year-old
• Why emotional detachment is not cold and how it helps you parent more effectively

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• Effective Agreements
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• If They Would Just ... Guiding Kids to Take Ownership of Their Own Agenda https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-132-if-they-would-just-guiding-kids-to-take-ownership/id1565976964?i=1000631685807
• Helping Young Adults get back on Track https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620

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Do you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.

Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com