In this episode, host Valerie Alston is joined by recruiting expert and former college coach Quincy Lewis-Buggs. They delve into the often overlooked, emotionally charged parent-player dynamic in the college recruiting process. Quincy shares invaluable tips for parents on how to balance being supportive without overwhelming their young athletes. Learn the importance of proactive planning, family meetings, and third-party evaluations. Discover key strategies to ensure that both parents and athletes are on the same page, and gain insights on handling differing expectations and goals. This episode is packed with practical advice to help your athlete feel empowered and supported throughout their college recruiting journey. Whether you're already in the midst of the process or preparing for the future, this episode is a must-listen for every parent and athlete. Don't miss out on essential conversation prompts designed to spark meaningful dialogue and build stronger relationships.

Discussion questions:

1. “If you could design your ideal college experience, what would it look like — both on and off the field?”
2. “Do you feel like we’re on the same page when it comes to your recruiting goals? What do you think we agree on — and what might be different?”
3. “What part of the recruiting process feels exciting to you? What part feels stressful?”
4. “How can I support you better through this process without taking over too much?”

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