Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

If you’ve just ended an affair—or maybe you’ve confessed and you’re still spinning in shame—you might be wondering: Where do I even start?

I know what it feels like to be frozen in confusion. To believe you have to fix everything. To feel like you’re the problem. But healing isn’t about fixing your marriage first or spilling every tiny detail. Your first step is coming home to yourself and God.

In this episode, I’ll share what those early days looked like for me—what actually helped me move forward, the biggest misconceptions women believe at the start of this journey, and the one gentle but powerful next step I recommend for you right now.

What you’ll learn in this episode: ✔ Why your first step is not fixing your marriage or earning everyone’s trust ✔ How shame shows up and keeps you stuck in secrecy ✔ What healing really involves—your mind, heart, soul, and body ✔ The one small shift that started my journey home

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

What if repentance wasn’t about shame—but about coming home?

In this tender and truth-filled episode, I share what it means to return to God not with guilt, but with grace. Through my own story of wrestling with desire, honesty, and identity, you'll be invited to reframe repentance as a loving homecoming, not a spiritual punishment. Whether you're still in the affair or navigating the ache afterward, this episode is a safe, compassionate space to be honest and begin healing.

You are not disqualified. You are still welcome. You are still becoming.

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

You thought things would get better after the confession. But now? You just feel stuck.

In this episode, I speak directly to the woman still in the middle- maybe still in the affair, maybe just out of it, still wrestling with shame, spiraling thoughts, or disconnection from God and herself. You’ll hear my story of getting unstuck, the moment I finally found support, and how transformation often begins in the quiet, hidden places.

We’ll explore the difference between punishment and process, what it means to go inward like a butterfly in a cocoon, and why your journey is not just valid- it’s sacred.

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

After an affair, it’s easy to withdraw, thinking you're protecting yourself or others. But withdraw turned isolation keeps you stuck, while solitude creates space for healing.

In this episode, we explore the subtle but powerful difference between the two. You’ll learn how to recognize when you're numbing or hiding, how to build healthy rhythms of solitude with God, and why safe community is essential to your healing after infidelity. This is for the woman who feels lost, disconnected, and unsure how to re-engage without shame.

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

After betrayal, the shame can feel unbearable. You wonder, Who even am I now? In this episode, we explore the shock of your choices, the myth of the "good girl," and the invitation to rebuild your identity through the eyes of grace. You're not beyond redemption—and you're not alone.

If you’re asking, “How could I have done this?” then join me! In this episode, we talk about the identity crisis that follows infidelity, how shame distorts your view of yourself, and why your story isn’t over. You'll hear encouragement rooted in Scripture, reflections on purity culture, and a fresh reminder of who you are in Christ, even after an affair. Whether you’re still in it or healing from it, this is a powerful step toward wholeness.

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

You finally told the truth. You thought it would bring peace. But now you feel more confused, ashamed, or overwhelmed than ever.

This episode is for the woman who confessed her affair and is now wondering what comes next.

I’ll walk you through why confession is only the beginning, what real healing looks like, and how to rebuild trust in yourself and intimacy with God.

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

If you’ve been trying to fix your marriage, your emotions, or your image… and you're exhausted, this episode is for you. Healing doesn’t start when everyone else changes- it starts when you slow down enough to listen to you. In today’s honest conversation, I’ll share how I stopped overfunctioning, started trusting the Holy Spirit within me, and began healing from the inside out.

The first step isn’t doing more—it’s getting radically honest.

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching

Ready for your first step? Grab the Coming Home to Jesus Workshop here!

Sister, this episode has the MOST downloads of all time, so I know that it resonates with many of you!

Are you stuck in an affair and wondering how to get out? Who can I talk to, and where can I go where I won’t be judged or feel shame? Let me reassure you now- not everyone gets access to your heart and story!

Today I dive into the very FIRST step of finding freedom, and that is finding and creating safe spaces in your life. These could be by yourself, but I also give a few ideas about safe people and safe physical places. Until you feel safe, you’ll stay stuck and unable to move forward towards freedom.

Remember: you are not alone!

I pray you experience the love of Christ!

xoxo,

Kristina

Next steps:

✨ Your first step toward healing starts here → Coming Home to Jesus guided workshop 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

✨ Ready for deeper transformation? → Join Coming Home to Freedom, my 4-week course that helps you rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

💬 Join our safe and growing community → www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

📩 Want to talk with me 1:1? → https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching