High-conflict divorces can drain your energy, finances, and emotional well-being—but they don’t have to. In this episode, host Greer Howard and top Illinois divorce attorney Bobby Buchanan break down the five most common mistakes people make during high-conflict divorces and share practical strategies to avoid them.

From letting emotions take over, to mismanaging finances, to losing sight of what’s best for the kids—Bobby walks listeners through real-life examples and gives expert advice on how to keep things calm, strategic, and under control.

Whether you're just starting the process or feeling overwhelmed in the thick of it, this episode will empower you to make smart, informed choices and protect what matters most.

In This Episode:

• Why emotional control is your greatest asset
• How to set communication boundaries that actually work
• The financial blind spots that could cost you
• Why “winning” isn’t the goal—and what is
• How to minimize the impact of divorce on your children
  
  

This is a must-listen if you're facing a difficult divorce and want to keep your sanity and your future intact.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a professional for legal guidance specific to your situation.

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📞 Consult Bobby’s Firm: 312-757-4833
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In this episode of the Illinois Divorce Guide Podcast, host Greer Howard and top Illinois divorce attorney Bobby Buchanan tackle one of the most complex and misunderstood aspects of divorce: distinguishing between marital and non-marital property.

Bobby answers real listener questions covering scenarios like:

• If a spouse invests in a home you owned before marriage, do they gain ownership?
  
  
• What happens when you add your spouse to a property title—did you just transmute it?
  
  
• Does contributing more financially mean you get more in the divorce?
  
  
• Can one spouse keep their retirement or business if it was built during the marriage?
  
  
• How is debt handled—especially if one spouse racks up credit cards or hasn’t filed taxes?
  
  

This episode dives into legal gray areas around gifts, reimbursements, intent, and even the emotional challenges of fairness versus legal standards. If you're facing property division in your divorce or want to understand your rights, this is a must-listen.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a professional for legal guidance specific to your situation.

Connect with Us:

📺 Watch More on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@illinoisdivorcetv/
🌐 Learn More: https://www.rbbfirm.com
📞 Consult Bobby’s Firm: 312-757-4833
📧 Email: info@rbbfirm.com

If you found this episode helpful, be sure to subscribe, rate, and review to help others going through the divorce process.

In this episode of the Illinois Divorce Guide Podcast, Greer Howard and top Illinois divorce attorney Bobby Buchanan dive into one of the most important financial aspects of divorce: understanding the difference between marital and non-marital property.

From inherited assets and retirement accounts to real estate and debt, Bobby breaks down what gets divided during a divorce—and what doesn’t. You’ll learn how Illinois law classifies assets, how “commingling” can impact ownership, and what “transmutation” really means in divorce proceedings.

Bobby also shares insight into equitable division (hint: fair doesn’t always mean equal) and explains how tools like prenuptial and postnuptial agreements can help protect your interests. Whether you're contemplating divorce or already in the process, this episode offers clarity and practical knowledge to help you make informed decisions about your financial future.

🎧 Listen now to understand:

• What qualifies as marital vs. non-marital property
• How courts approach asset division in Illinois
• Why “mixing” your assets might change ownership classification
• The impact of inheritance, mortgages, and renovations
• How to safeguard your assets during marriage

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a professional for legal guidance specific to your situation.

Connect with Us:

📺 Watch More on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@illinoisdivorcetv/
🌐 Learn More: https://www.rbbfirm.com
📞 Consult Bobby’s Firm: 312-757-4833
📧 Email: info@rbbfirm.com

If you found this episode helpful, be sure to subscribe, rate, and review to help others going through the divorce process.