In this special Pride Week episode, I sit down with broadcaster Rich Clarke for a deeply personal conversation about identity, authenticity, and the toll of hiding in plain sight. Rich shares his journey of navigating a high-profile media career while carrying a secret identity, and how years of masking his true sexuality led to burnout, breakdown, and ultimately, a turning point.

We explore what it really means to come out — not just to the world, but to ourselves — and how the weight of shame, fear, and societal expectation can shape (and limit) our lives. From therapy and sobriety to standing on stage at Brighton Pride and finally saying, “I’m gay,” Rich reflects on what healing has looked like for him, and why connection, honesty, and self-compassion are essential to moving forward.

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Today, we're diving into one of the most misunderstood and deeply felt mental health experiences: panic attacks. My guest is Joshua Fletcher—better known as “Anxiety Josh”—a psychotherapist, author, and someone who knows firsthand what it’s like to live with panic disorder.

Josh doesn’t just explain what panic attacks are—he breaks down why they happen, how they hijack your mind and body, and most importantly, how to reclaim your life from them. With his trademark honesty and wit, he shares his own journey of being stuck in the panic loop, the myths that keep people suffering longer than they need to, and the powerful tools that can help you break free.

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• Website – schoolofanxiety.com
• Instagram – @anxietyjosh
• Podcast – Disordered with Joshua Fletcher
• Books – Panicking About Panic, Untangle Your Anxiety, And How Does That Make You Feel?

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I’ve been looking forward to this conversation for a long time. Today, I’m joined by the brilliant Dr. Shefali – a clinical psychologist, best-selling author, and the global voice behind the conscious parenting movement. Her work has changed the way millions of people approach not only how they raise their children, but how they reparent themselves.

In this episode, we explore the ways we become disconnected from our authentic selves, how childhood conditioning shapes our adult lives, and why so many of us unknowingly carry generational trauma into our relationships — especially as parents. Dr. Shefali speaks with such clarity, compassion, and raw honesty, and she shares her own experiences of being a mother, a woman in transformation, and someone who has had to face her ego head-on. This conversation is a powerful reminder that our healing begins with awareness — and that true liberation often starts with the courage to look inward.

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What’s the difference between everyday selfishness and true narcissism — and how do you know if you’re in a relationship that’s quietly eroding your self-worth?

In this episode of Healing 101, I speak with Dr. Sarah Davies, a psychotherapist and expert in narcissistic abuse, about the subtle red flags, the power of gaslighting, and how to begin reclaiming your sense of self.

From setting clear boundaries to understanding the psychology behind emotional manipulation, this conversation is a lifeline for anyone who’s felt silenced, confused, or overwhelmed.

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In today’s episode I sit down with consultant psychiatrist and former elite rugby player Dr. Phil Hopley to explore the mental health challenges we face in high-pressure environments — from boardrooms to Formula One pits. With decades of experience supporting top performers in sport, law, and finance, Phil shares how his own journey from the rugby field to psychiatry led to a passion for building resilience and emotional recovery.

From founding Cognacity, a trailblazing mental health consultancy, to coaching professionals on navigating burnout, anxiety, and perfectionism, Phil breaks down how to shift from reactive to proactive care. He reveals what elite athletes, CEOs, and everyday professionals can do to regulate stress, avoid cognitive traps like catastrophising and rumination, and take back control. Plus, he speaks candidly about the mental toll of retirement, and why connection and purpose are essential to sustaining wellbeing.

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We’re told that new motherhood should feel magical — but what happens when it doesn’t? In this episode of Healing 101, I’m joined by writer and art historian Sarah Hoover, whose raw honesty about postpartum depression cuts through the silence and shame that so many new mothers carry alone.

We explore what postpartum depression really looks like — beyond the clichés — and how it can show up as rage, disconnection, anxiety, or even laughter that masks pain. Sarah shares her personal experience, how birth trauma can play a role, and why it’s so important to let go of the pressure to feel grateful all the time.

If you or someone you love has struggled with new motherhood, this conversation is a reminder that you’re not alone — and you deserve support, not silence.

• Book: The Motherload – Order here
• Instagram: @sarahhoov
• Website: sarahhoover.com

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In this episode of Hurt to Healing, I sit down with the brilliant Dr. Beth Mosley—clinical psychologist and author of Happy Families. Beth brings her warmth, honesty, and lived experience as both a parent and therapist to help us make sense of the emotional minefield of raising teenagers today. We explore why mental health is declining among young people, how social media complicates their development, and what parents can do to foster resilience, connection, and open communication. Beth shares invaluable advice on setting boundaries, repairing ruptures, and letting go of perfection—reminding us that being a good enough parent is more than enough.

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In this episode of Healing 101, I sit down with the remarkable Laura Hearn — a journalist, mental health advocate, and the founder of Flip It Works — to explore the critical role that vulnerability, storytelling, and humanity play in shaping healthier, more compassionate workplaces.

Today, she helps organisations create meaningful and lasting mental health initiatives through real human connection, not just policies and apps. We talk about the importance of leaders showing up as their full selves, the fear so many employees face in being seen as “defined by their diagnosis,” and the fine line between performative wellbeing and genuine support. Laura also shares powerful insights about navigating panic, grief, and how small acts of compassion — like simply asking someone what they need — can make a world of difference.

This episode is an honest reminder that the foundation of mental health in the workplace isn't about perfection or tick-boxes — it’s about empathy, listening, and above all, being human.

Find out more:

Website: www.flipitglobal.com

Instagram: @laura_lhearn

Podcast: https://www.flipitglobal.com/podcast/

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