Supporting Grievers: How to Show Up and Stay Present

In this episode of 'Grief is the New Normal,' Dr. Heather Taylor, a licensed psychologist and grief specialist, focuses on how to support someone who is grieving. She explains the three roles of support: doers, listeners, and respite friends, emphasizing the need for sustainable and specific support. Dr. Taylor offers practical tips on how to stay engaged over the long term, the importance of marking significant dates, and what actions to avoid, such as offering toxic positivity or disappearing when it gets challenging. She concludes by encouraging listeners to stay present and offer genuine, consistent support to those in grief.

00:00 Introduction to Grief is the New Normal

00:26 Understanding the Support Crew

01:04 The Three Types of Support

06:39 Effective Long-Term Support Strategies

10:12 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

13:22 Final Thoughts and Resources

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Grief is the New Normal is the podcast that refuses to sugarcoat loss—because grief isn’t a problem to fix, it’s a reality to live with. Hosted by Dr. Heather Taylor, a licensed psychologist with over a decade of experience in grief, trauma, and reproductive psychology, this show dives deep into the messy, nonlinear, and very real ways grief impacts our lives.

Whether you're navigating the death of your person, wrestling with the weight of an invisible loss, or trying to figure out who you even are after everything changed—this podcast is here for you. With a mix of solo deep dives, expert interviews, and candid conversations, Dr. Taylor unpacks the emotions no one warns you about, challenges outdated grief narratives, and offers both practical tools and hard-earned wisdom to help you feel less alone.

No toxic positivity. No “fixing” your grief. Just honest talk, validation, and the reminder that you don’t have to do this alone. Because in a world that wants you to move on, Grief is the New Normal is here to help you move through.

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