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Gay Adult Friendships: Beyond the Apps | Mindfully Gay Podcast

Why is it so hard to make and maintain meaningful friendships as gay adults? In this powerful episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast, hosts John Cottrell and Jerry Buie explore the unique landscape of gay adult friendship, discussing why it becomes increasingly difficult to build lasting connections as we age -- and what we can do about it.

From personal stories to cultural insights, John and Jerry break down the challenges that gay and queer men face when trying to create authentic bonds -- especially in a world dominated by dating and hookup apps. While these platforms have their place, they often reduce us to body types and sexual preferences, missing the richness of who we truly are.

But what if these same apps could be tools for genuine connection and community-building? John and Jerry share tips on how to shift intention, lead with authenticity, and use these platforms to grow your circle of friends based on shared values, creativity, and personal magic.

This episode is a celebration of the Gay Blessings and queer power we all carry -- a reminder that when we show up fully as ourselves, we don't just make friends… we change lives.

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Air Date: April 11, 2025
Hosts: John Cottrell & Jerry Buie

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