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Food is Not Love

Food is Not Love

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Are you finding yourself reaching for snacks even when you're not hungry, perhaps while watching TV or feeling a bit bored? Do you struggle with ingrained food habits that feel almost automatic, much like the subconscious reaching for a cigarette pack years after quitting? If so, this audio delves into these very real struggles and offers a unique perspective. In this segment, titled "Food is Not Love," Albert, explores our deeply complex relationship with food. He discusses how from infancy, we are entirely dependent on caretakers for feeding, and this crucial act is often performed with care and love, creating an early, powerful association between being fed and being loved. As we grow, our parents and grandparents express their love by cooking for us and are delighted when we enjoy their food. This repeated experience teaches us a potent lesson: food is love. The speaker shares personal, powerful memories of his grandmothers' and father's cooking, illustrating how food becomes tied to our most cherished relationships. However, the core message here is a challenging one: Food is not love, even though the act of making and giving food can be an act of love. It's like a beautifully messaged card that arrives drenched in mud; the card is the messenger, but the message of love is what truly matters. This distinction is difficult to navigate, especially when surrounded by loved ones who express their affection through cooking. The audio explores the challenge of communicating this, explaining that asking loved ones to change the way they show love through food can feel like a rejection of their care. Ultimately, the speaker encourages listeners to understand that food is merely a messenger. He emphasizes that no amount of comforting food, like chocolate cake or cheesecake, can truly fill the void of loneliness or make you feel more loved or less alone. If you've ever felt confused about why you turn to food for reasons other than hunger, or struggled with the emotional weight food carries in relationships, this audio offers a profound look at these issues. It's an invitation to think differently about food and the ways we give and receive love. This discussion is based on insights from Albert Lotito, author of the book "Food is Fuel and Other Thoughts to Eat By," available on Amazon.com. You can also join the conversation and share your own story by emailing foodisfuel@myahoo.com
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