Episodios

  • ⚖️ BJJ, Law, and the First Amendment
    Jun 29 2025

    In this episode of Fighting Matters, Steve Kwan from BJJ Mental Models is joined by Jesse Walker of Rough Hands BJJ and attorney/mediator Andrew Burcham for a deep dive into the legal minefield of free speech, particularly how it intersects with combat sports culture and the internet.

    What does the First Amendment actually protect? Can private companies limit your speech? Why do so many fighters and fans misunderstand their rights, and what happens when “free speech” is weaponized to shield bigotry?

    From Dana White to Gordon Ryan, from hate speech to stochastic terrorism, this episode explores how legal frameworks shape behavior online and on the mats—plus what it means for those navigating both the Jiu-Jitsu community and public discourse today.



    👥 Featuring:

    Andrew Burcham – Attorney & Mediator
    Jesse Walker ‪@RoughHandsBJJ‬
    Steve Kwan ‪@bjjmentalmodels‬



    🧠 Topics We Cover:

    • What the First Amendment actually says
    • Why free speech doesn’t mean freedom from consequences
    • The legality of hate speech in the U.S. vs. Canada
    • Stochastic terrorism, incitement, and internet mobbing
    • Citizens United and how money became “speech”
    • How lawfare, venue shopping, and religious freedom collide
    • What Jiu-Jitsu can learn from better civic literacy



    📖 Chapters:

    00:00 – Intro: Meet Andrew Burcham, attorney & Jiu-Jitsu practitioner
    01:15 – Free speech in the U.S. vs. Canada
    03:55 – Bryce Mitchell, Dana White, and the misuse of “free speech”
    06:24 – What the First Amendment really protects
    10:00 – The cake maker case: religion vs. discrimination
    14:41 – How venue shopping influences legal outcomes
    17:23 – U.S. vs. EU: why American law varies state to state
    20:08 – The illusion of blind justice and stacking the courts
    25:14 – Social media, incitement, and Brandenburg v. Ohio
    29:59 – Internet mobs: the Gordon Ryan effect
    32:18 – Stochastic terrorism and platform accountability
    35:07 – Hate speech laws in Canada vs. the U.S.
    39:37 – Can employers fire you for what you say online?
    42:00 – Protected classes colliding: religion vs. gender identity
    46:16 – Weaponizing religion in legal challenges
    51:18 – Citizens United: when corporations got free speech
    55:25 – Buying political power: Elon Musk, TrumpCoin & ROI
    58:45 – Cuts to Medicaid: real-world consequences in rural America
    01:02:33 – Why Americans misunderstand free speech
    01:06:34 – The myth of “free speech absolutism”
    01:09:13 – Why some grapplers can’t speak out
    01:10:36 – Final thoughts: Be kind, question power, fight for truth

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    1 h y 12 m
  • 🎙️ Giles Garcia Unleashed: Jiu-Jitsu's Voice of Reason
    Jun 26 2025

    In this episode of Fighting Matters, Steve Kwan from BJJ Mental Models is joined by Stephan Kesting (Grapplearts), Jesse Walker (Rough Hands BJJ), and the incomparable Giles Garcia (Ronin Grappling) for a raw, unscripted deep dive into the political and cultural fault lines running through the Jiu-Jitsu world.

    From media manipulation to fascist creep in martial arts, Giles brings the fire with unfiltered commentary on how the right hijacked the narrative, why conspiracies thrive in the fight scene, and what it really means to stand for something as a coach and leader.

    If you’ve ever wondered why “just stick to Jiu-Jitsu” is a cop-out, or what role you play in the bigger fight, this one’s for you.



    👥 Featuring:

    Giles Garcia – Ronin Grappling
    Stephan Kesting – Grapplearts
    Jesse Walker – Rough Hands BJJ
    Steve Kwan – BJJ Mental Models



    🧠 Topics We Cover:

    • The rise of fascism in martial arts culture
    • Why conspiracy theories thrive in Jiu-Jitsu
    • Media consolidation and fake neutrality
    • How coaches can lead without preaching
    • Culture war vs. class war in BJJ
    • Giles responds to Nazi commenters (for real)
    • What real leadership looks like in hard times



    📖 Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Introductions
    02:50 The Role of Martial Arts in Society
    05:36 Personal Stories and Experiences with Organizations
    08:43 Global Perspectives on Societal Threats
    11:51 Media Control and Government Overreach
    14:41 The Illusion of Left and Right Politics
    17:54 Conspiracies and Their Impact on Society
    20:24 The Influence of Popular Media Figures
    23:11 The Fight Community and Its Dynamics
    26:13 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
    36:00 The Rise of New Media and Its Impact
    39:02 The Challenge of Truth in Media
    42:10 Understanding the Left's Struggles
    47:01 The Need for a Political Reset
    48:49 Addressing Real Concerns in Society
    52:53 Navigating Power Dynamics in Coaching
    58:40 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Training
    01:01:45 Responding to Controversial Comments

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    1 h y 14 m
  • Is the USA Becoming a Handmaid's Theocracy?
    Jun 21 2025

    Stephan, Jesse, and Shelby are joined by Eva Schubert from the popular Villains and Virgins Podcast to discuss tactics used by all authoritarian states regardless of whether they are theocratic, fascist, or communist in nature. They examine Margaret Atwood's 'The Handmaid's Tale' in the context of today's political climate and address the need for protests and collective action in combating these issues while emphasising the need for empathy and humanity in the face of adversity.

    Check out Eva's podcast at https://www.villainsandvirgins.com and on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnOZJsYzx1k&list=PLteESDDVIavTfrljkgjFpLlrlCuC3I2dV

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  • What Jiu-Jitsu Gets Wrong About Masculinity
    Jun 19 2025

    In this episode of Fighting Matters, Steve Kwan from BJJ Mental Models is joined by Jesse Walker of Rough Hands BJJ, Mike Mahaffey of Old Bastard BJJ, and mental health advocate David Figueroa-Martinez to challenge the outdated definitions of masculinity still thriving in the Jiu-Jitsu world.

    Why are men in Jiu-Jitsu still afraid to talk about emotion?
    What’s the cost of performative toughness on and off the mats?
    And how can coaches reshape gym culture to support real growth—for everyone?

    This isn’t about making BJJ "softer." It’s about making it stronger, by fostering vulnerability, empathy, and honesty in an often hypermasculine sport.



    👥 Featuring:

    • Jesse Walker ‪@RoughHandsBJJ‬
    • Mike Mahaffey ‪@OldBastardBJJ‬
    • David Figueroa-Martinez ‪@dfm.2099‬
    • Steve Kwan ‪@bjjmentalmodels‬



    🧠 Topics We Cover:

    • Why emotional repression hurts male athletes
    • The damage done by “fake toughness” in Jiu-Jitsu
    • Why coaching is about more than just technique
    • How to build mentally healthy gym culture
    • The double standard for male vs female emotion
    • Why acknowledging weakness is a sign of strength



    📖 Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
    02:58 Exploring Men's Mental Health
    05:59 Emotional Intelligence in Men
    08:49 Generational Perspectives on Emotions
    11:53 The Impact of Media on Masculinity
    14:44 The Role of Vulnerability in Leadership
    17:35 Navigating Grief and Loss
    20:29 The Dichotomy of Progress and Pushback
    23:30 The Importance of Authenticity in Coaching
    37:28 The Performative Coach
    38:55 Vulnerability in Coaching
    39:25 The Evolving Stigma of Mental Health
    40:39 Public Figures and Mental Health
    41:38 Emotional Vulnerability in Leadership
    43:41 Relatability in Leadership
    45:30 The Mask of Professionalism
    47:47 The Role of Jiu-Jitsu in Mental Health
    49:03 Emotional Intelligence and Anger
    51:15 The Dangers of Anger
    53:21 Generational Challenges
    56:35 Cultural Backlash and Representation
    58:03 The Impact of Social Media
    01:00:55 Cyberbullying and Youth Challenges
    01:03:41 The Role of Jiu-Jitsu Coaches
    01:05:17 Authenticity in Coaching
    01:07:22 The True Essence of Coaching
    01:09:15 Redefining Success in Coaching
    01:11:01 Closing Thoughts on Authenticity

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    1 h y 15 m
  • 🥋 Jiu-Jitsu Is a Platform. Use It.
    Jun 16 2025

    In this episode of Fighting Matters, Steve Kwan from BJJ Mental Models sits down with Mike Mahaffey of Old Bastard BJJ and Jesse Walker of Rough Hands BJJ for a raw conversation about why it matters—now more than ever—for Jiu-Jitsu practitioners to speak out.

    Why do so many people say “keep politics out of the gym”? What does it really mean to use your platform responsibly? And how can community, not conflict, be the most powerful form of resistance?

    From running inclusive gyms to dealing with trolls, threats, and the myth of “virtue signaling,” this episode is a call to action for anyone who believes that Jiu-Jitsu should stand for something more than just fighting.



    👥 Featuring:

    Mike Mahaffey – ‪@oldbastardbjj‬
    Jesse Walker – ‪@roughhandsbjj‬
    Steve Kwan – ‪@bjjmentalmodels‬



    🧠 Topics We Cover:

    • Why speaking out doesn’t hurt your business—sometimes it builds it
    • How to use privilege as a force for good
    • What “virtue signaling” really means (and why it’s a lazy critique)
    • How to build a gym that welcomes everyone
    • Why moderating your community isn’t censorship—it’s care
    • What to do if you’re “just a white belt” but still want to help



    📖 Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to Fighting Matters and the Hosts
    01:02 Addressing Criticism in Martial Arts Advocacy
    05:07 Personal Experiences and Advocacy in BJJ
    11:06 Creating Inclusive Spaces in Martial Arts
    15:39 The Impact of Speaking Up on Business and Community
    20:47 Countering Virtue Signaling Criticism
    26:32 The Importance of Resistance and Community Building
    32:48 Finding Your Voice in the Community
    38:14 The Importance of Intention
    52:02 Courage to Speak Up
    56:24 Building Connections and Community

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  • It's time for the Jiu-Jitsu community to speak up.
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  • 🦠 Why MRSA is so dangerous for grapplers
    Jun 12 2025

    We're doing this episode in light of Ben Askren's battle with MRSA (methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus).

    In this episode of Fighting Matters, Steve Kwan from BJJ Mental Models sits down with Jeff Shaw of Bellingham BJJ and Dr. Clayton Green, a board-certified dermatologist and microbiologist, to dig into one of the scariest health threats in combat sports: MRSA.

    Why are otherwise healthy grapplers winding up hospitalized with life-threatening infections? Why does doing “everything right” still not guarantee safety? And what can we learn from modern medicine to actually prevent this from happening?

    With pro athletes like Ben Askren and John Moxley getting sidelined by staph—and regular gym-goers like Jeff fighting it off with IV antibiotics—this conversation goes beyond hygiene to tackle culture, misinformation, and the war between science and bro science.



    👥 Featuring:

    Dr. Clayton Green – Dermatologist & Microbiologist
    Jeff Shaw ‪@BellinghamBJJ‬
    Steve Kwan ‪@bjjmentalmodels‬



    🧠 Topics We Cover:

    • How MRSA actually works (and why it’s deadly)
    • Why your gym might still be dangerous, even if it’s clean
    • The science behind colonization and contamination
    • Best practices for prevention and decolonization
    • Why “doing your own research” is making you sick
    • What science communicators can learn from pro wrestling



    📖 Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to Staph Infections in Combat Sports
    02:44 Understanding Staph and MRSA: The Basics
    05:33 The Ecology of Staph: Colonization and Transmission
    08:30 Identifying Staph Infections in Gyms
    11:17 Best Practices for Prevention and Hygiene
    13:56 Antibiotics and Treatment: What You Need to Know
    16:37 Decolonization: Challenges and Strategies
    19:28 Prophylactic Antibiotics: Risks and Considerations
    22:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
    25:39 The Importance of Advocacy in Medicine
    28:12 Understanding Staph Infections and Their Risks
    37:15 Probiotics and Antibiotics: What You Need to Know
    44:20 Communicating Science Effectively to Combat Misinformation
    51:51 The Goalkeeper Syndrome in Society
    53:09 The Impact of Denialism on Health
    54:25 The Importance of Vaccination and Public Health
    56:57 The Role of Emotion in Persuasion
    58:25 Urgent Care and Access to Healthcare
    01:03:14 The Privilege of Health and Misinformation
    01:06:48 The Challenges of Chronic Illness and Research
    01:10:35 Community Outreach and the Medical Profession

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    1 h y 17 m
  • Extremist “Active Clubs” Are Infiltrating Jiu-Jitsu
    Jun 5 2025

    Neo-Nazis are infiltrating Jiu-Jitsu—and most of us don’t even know it’s happening.

    In this episode of Fighting Matters, we’re joined by investigative journalist Mack Lamoureux to expose the rise of “active clubs”: decentralized extremist groups using martial arts like Jiu-Jitsu and Muay Thai as recruiting tools for white supremacist and neo-Nazi causes.

    Mack spent nearly a decade reporting on far-right extremism for VICE News and now works with the Institute for Strategic Dialogue, tracking extremist movements around the world. He explains how these groups organize in secret, how they weaponize the power of community, and how they’re already competing in tournaments and running covert training groups in cities across North America.

    This conversation is a wake-up call for anyone who thinks Jiu-Jitsu is immune to radicalization—and a roadmap for how we push back.



    👥 Featuring:

    Mack Lamoureux – Investigative Journalist
    Jesse Walker ‪@RoughHandsBJJ‬
    Mike Mahaffey ‪@OldBastardBJJ‬
    Steve Kwan ‪@bjjmentalmodels‬



    🧠 Topics We Cover:

    • What are active clubs—and how do they recruit?
    • How extremist groups use martial arts to radicalize
    • Why community is both a powerful tool and a dangerous weapon
    • The terrifying overlap between fight culture and fascism
    • What coaches and gym owners can do to fight back



    📖 Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to the Conversation
    01:28 Understanding Active Clubs
    05:11 Recruitment Tactics of Active Clubs
    08:33 Training for a Race War
    10:50 The Nature of Active Clubs
    13:31 Community and Cult-like Tactics
    15:29 Evolution of Active Clubs
    20:41 Decentralized Structure and Terrorism
    23:08 Identifying Active Clubs
    26:27 The Power of Community Influence
    31:14 Normalization of Extremism in Jiu-Jitsu
    33:20 The Ethical Decline in Society
    35:43 Understanding the Overton Window
    41:13 The Role of Community in Combatting Extremism
    49:46 Mental Health and Coping with Dark Subjects
    54:48 The Power of Local Influence

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    1 h y 1 m