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"I didn't always get fatherhood right. In fact, for a time I wasn't even in the game, but I'm still here and that counts for something."

The journey through fatherhood rarely comes with clear directions, especially for those of us who grew up without strong paternal role models. In this raw, heartfelt Father's Day episode, I share my own winding path from determined young dad to absent addict to present, accountable father and grandfather.

When my son was born nearly 35 years ago, I promised myself I wouldn't repeat the inconsistent fathering I had experienced. Yet within six months, my marriage ended, and years later, I fell into a destructive period of addiction that pulled me away from my son's life. This episode explores that dark chapter and the turning point that came with recovery in 1996 – when I finally began showing up consistently, taking financial responsibility, and learning what it truly means to father from a place of authenticity rather than perfection.

For fathers who have stumbled, missed years, or damaged relationships, this conversation offers both challenge and hope. Your past mistakes don't have to define your future as a father. Whether your children are young or grown, it's never too late to begin the work of becoming the dad they deserve. The path forward isn't about being perfect – it's about being present, accountable, and willing to lead from your wounds rather than your pride.

Ready to transform your approach to fatherhood? Take that first step today, even if it feels awkward or uncertain. Your children don't need a superhero – they just need your steady hand and open heart. Subscribe now to join our community of parents committed to growth, healing, and showing up even when it's hard.

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