Welcome to another episode of The Re-Mind Podcast with Dr Ashleigh Moreland and David Masterton. Today’s episode unpacks a listener letter that hits a nerve for many:

“Am I the a**hole for not making my child hug their grandparents?”

From the floor of Ash’s bedroom (in the middle of a real-life moment with a sick pup and a full heart), we explore:

• How parental shame, performance, and generational conditioning impact parenting choices

• The powerful difference between teaching manners vs. teaching body autonomy

• Why “being polite” shouldn't come at the cost of your child’s boundaries

• The emotional ripple of “just give them a hug” — and how it perpetuates old trauma

• How to hold compassion for others’ trauma without tolerating toxic patterns

• Scripts and ideas to support your kids while managing family expectations

This episode invites you to reflect on where obligation meets identity — and how we can consciously choose to break the cycle.

• Love is not performance, and consent is not optional — even for kids

• Understanding someone’s pain doesn’t mean excusing harmful behavior

• When kids say no, it's not disrespect — it's sovereignty

• Being the cycle breaker means getting uncomfortable with other people’s expectations

We love hearing from you. DM, comment, or send a listener letter our way.

🌿 Re-MIND Institute Linktree
www.re-mind.institute/linktree

🌿 David’s Linktree (Accidental Ascension)
http://linktr.ee/accidental_ascension

🌐 Website
www.re-mind.institute

📱 Instagram
@‌remind.institute

📘 Facebook
Re-MIND Institute

The Re-Mind Podcast provides general information and open conversation around mental health, emotional well-being, healing, and spirituality. The content shared in this episode is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice or therapy. If you or someone you love is navigating mental health challenges, please seek support from qualified professionals.