Dear Sister Girls

I’m in need of advice. So, once I married my husband, we started to hang around more married people. Before I get into this letter, I just want you all to know that I am in a wonderful loving and committed marriage. 

During these normal hangout sessions, the men tend to leave the wives and go off to do their own things.

While we are in our separate gender groups, the conversation, on occasion, could become sexual in nature. Now several of my married girl friends, will brag about how they are putting it on their husbands and dropping it like it is hot. So I am being encouraging and telling her, “You Go Girl”. 

However, when I get home with my husband and we’re having pillow talk, he informs me how unhappy a few of the husbands are with their sex life. And I’ll be dog darn that the same women that were bragging about how good they are in bed are married to the men that are complaining about how horrible their sex life is.

My question, how can i inform my girlfriends about their husbands true feeling concerning their sex life? Letting them know that their husbands think their sex life is trash and they need to make some major changes/ improvements?

Signed… the girlfriend of the one that thinks she is dropping it like it’s hot but she’s not.