What do you get when you mix ADHD, autism, a lifetime of masking, and a blunt personality who refuses to sugarcoat reality? You get this episode.

In today’s brutally honest (but not brutal) ride through neurodivergence, Donny explores the messy, beautiful intersection of ADHD and autism—what it feels like to live in a world that wasn’t built for your brain, and how to stop apologizing for who you are while still taking full responsibility for the impact you have.

We’re breaking down:

• The blurry overlap between ADHD and autism

• Why “you don’t look autistic” is a trash take

• Masking, meltdowns, and misdiagnosis

• Rethinking ODD: defiance or discernment?

• Radical accountability without shame

• The difference between honesty and cruelty

• How to build a life for your brain—not around your guilt

This one’s raw, funny, and real—perfect for anyone who’s ever felt “almost understood” but not quite. Whether you’re diagnosed, self-identified, or just trying to understand the chaos in your head, this episode is here to help you name it, own it, and maybe even build something beautiful from it.

⚠️ Warning: may cause sudden clarity, mild existential relief, and the urge to build a life that actually fits.

🎧 If this hit home, share it with someone else who’s one meltdown away from enlightenment. Let’s keep growing—loudly, kindly, and on our own terms.

P.S. I'm aware my teeth are clicking. I'm working on that.