In this episode, Robin and Chris discuss the essay Robin read in last week’s episode, written by her nomadic traveling friend, Gila. Robin and Chris break down the essay, line-by-line, and compare how Gila’s insights and words seamlessly dovetail with our experiences with coming out late in life.

Here’s a sampling of what you’ll hear Robin & Chris explore…

• "We are shaped by our experiences. Without both the challenges and the joyful moments, there is no path for growth.” -Gila Melamed
• How can ‘joy’ be a catalyst for growth?
• Remember also,  ”The point of change [growth] comes when we can no longer stay the same.”
• ‘Hard’ doesn’t have to mean ‘bad’.
• The day will come for all of us when we realize we can no longer stay the same.
• It’s difficult to have a compassionate heart when you’re in fear.
• The beauty of forgiveness lies in the freedom it gives us.
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