• Inside the Damage-Free Discipline Leadership Lab
    May 21 2025

    In this episode, I give you a behind the scenes look at what's inside the Damage-Free Discipline Leadership Lab and make an important podcast announcement.

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    Join the Damage-Free Discipline Leadership Lab 👉🏾 https://thecyclestops.com

    How to connect with me 👉🏾 https://vvsliving.com

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    This content is NOT SPONSORED.

    Music Made by Suno AI

    I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice.

    If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

    I pray this blesses your home. Let’s get into it.

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    12 m
  • What’s the Best Parenting Approach?
    May 19 2025

    If you’ve been wondering what the best parenting approach actually is—this episode gives you a clear answer.

    I’m breaking down what made the biggest difference in how I lead my home, what Scripture says about avoiding extremes, and why correcting your child’s behavior isn’t enough to break cycles.

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    Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

    Join the email list to get the FREE Damage-Free Discipline™ Guide

    https://damagefreediscipline.com

    Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com

    📱Submit your questions in the podcast Facebook Group 👉🏾 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Et9Q4S2SG/

    Disclaimers:

    This content is NOT SPONSORED.

    All Music Made by Suno AI

    I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice.

    If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

    I pray this blesses your home. Let’s get into it.

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    18 m
  • Why Won’t My Child Talk to Me? (How to Start Healing the Relationship for Real)
    May 9 2025

    If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why is my child pulling away from me?” or “Why won’t my teenager talk to me anymore?”—this episode is for you.

    I’m sharing the story of how my own son almost cut me out of his life—and what I had to confront in myself to stop the damage and start healing our relationship. This isn’t about blame or shame. It’s about being honest with ourselves as moms about the environment we’ve created, the patterns we’ve passed down, and the trust that might’ve been broken along the way.

    You’ll hear what I’ve learned from discipline styles rooted in survival, how hostility and control pushed my son away, and the exact steps I took to repair what I broke. We’ll talk about what real empathy sounds like, why “I’m sorry” isn’t always enough, and how to move from pride to peace—one honest moment at a time.

    If you’re scared your child is shutting down or wants nothing to do with you, this episode will give you tools, language, and hope for what can still be rebuilt.

    Next steps:

    Join the Damage-Free Discipline Leadership Lab 👉🏾 https://thecyclestops.com

    Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

    Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free

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    Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com

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    25 m
  • What Your 'Baby' Needs to Know Before They Graduate
    May 1 2025

    It's graduation season and now it's real. You have to turn your child out into the world and you want to make sure they're prepared. The things they need most, aren't what you think. In this episode, I share 3 things your kids need to know before they leave.

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    Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

    Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free

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    Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com

    📱Join the podcast Facebook Group 👉🏾 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Et9Q4S2SG/

    Disclaimers:

    This content is NOT SPONSORED.

    I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice.

    If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

    I pray this blesses your home. Let’s get into it.

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    28 m
  • What to Do When Your Child Doesn’t Turn Out Like You Imagined
    Apr 30 2025
    You raised them with values. You prayed. You showed up. But now your child is distant, rebellious, or making choices that don’t look anything like what you imagined—and you’re left wondering what went wrong. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when the relationship with your child feels strained or unfamiliar, and how the story of the prodigal son gives you a model for parenting through disappointment, grief, and control—without giving up hope. You can read the story of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15: 11-32. Next steps: Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free with emails each weekday to help you lead with DFD in your home https://damagefreediscipline.com Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com 📱Join the podcast Facebook Group 👉🏾 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Et9Q4S2SG/ Disclaimers: This content is NOT SPONSORED. All Music Made by Suno AI I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.
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    11 m
  • How to stay calm when things don't work out
    Apr 30 2025

    I ran into a big problem and the old me would have completely lost it. In this episode, I'm going to share the wisdom I've gained from the Bible that keeps me from freaking out and how it applies to motherhood.

    Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

    Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

    Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free with emails each weekday to help you lead with DFD in your home--https://damagefreediscipline.com

    Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com

    📱Join the podcast Facebook Group 👉🏾 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Et9Q4S2SG/

    Disclaimers: This content is NOT SPONSORED.

    I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

    I pray this blesses your home. Let’s get into it.

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  • Freedom from Mom Guilt Starts with Knowing This One Thing
    Apr 17 2025

    You love your kids. You’ve changed your ways. You’ve even been saved.

    But deep down, you still carry guilt over how you used to parent—and you wonder if it’ll ever go away.

    In this episode, we’re talking about what guilt really is, why it still shows up (even after you’ve been forgiven), and how to finally stop letting it control how you see yourself as a mom.

    You’ll learn how to move forward with peace—without pretending the past didn’t happen.

    Understand your benefits package: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1mcQI2LId8dVQcKr9y2qQwEuY-7D5iXRsQ1H0Ggg7MwQ/edit?usp=sharing

    Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

    Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

    Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free with emails each weekday to help you lead with DFD in your home--https://damagefreediscipline.com

    Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com

    📱Join the podcast Facebook Group 👉🏾 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Et9Q4S2SG/

    Disclaimers: This content is NOT SPONSORED. All Music Made by Suno AI I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

    I pray this blesses your home. Let’s get into it.

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    12 m
  • Who’s Leading You? Christian Parenting Starts with Spiritual Alignment
    Apr 10 2025
    You say you want to lead your kids well—but have you ever asked what’s been leading you? In this episode, I talk about what shifted when I stopped parenting based on how I was raised, what I thought “good moms” do, or what other people expected—and started letting God lead me for real. If you're a Christian mom who wants to parent with clarity, authority, and peace for everybody in the house, this one’s for you. You'll get 3 simple steps to reset, realign, and remember what’s really driving your discipline.

    Next steps: It’s time to give your kids a childhood they don’t have to heal from.

    Book your chemistry call 👉🏾https://vvslifecoach.com

    Join my email list to get the Damage-Free Discipline™ Framework for free with emails each weekday to help you lead with DFD in your home--https://damagefreediscipline.com

    Lower your stress for good with my book, The Real Pain of Stress: What to Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It-- https://therealpainofstress.com

    📱Join the podcast Facebook Group 👉🏾 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Et9Q4S2SG/

    Disclaimers: This content is NOT SPONSORED. All Music Made by Suno AI I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice. If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

    I pray this blesses your home. Let’s get into it.

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    18 m
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