Episodios

  • 34. How to Deal with Domestic Violence and Divorce with Ksenya Kogan
    Jul 10 2025

    Family law attorney Ksenya Kogan doesn’t sugarcoat the realities of divorce litigation, especially when domestic violence is part of the picture. In this episode, she shares what really happens in family court, how well-meaning laws can be misused, and why finding the right attorney makes all the difference. We talk about the high emotional and financial costs of domestic violence allegations, how restraining orders really work, and what clients need to understand before heading into court. If you're navigating separation or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and some tough but necessary truths.

    Key takeaways:

    • A domestic violence finding can reshape custody and spousal support outcomes.
    • Restraining orders offer legal weight but limited physical protection.
    • Honest, experienced legal support matters more than flashy marketing when your family's future is on the line.

    Connect with us!

    • Ksenya Kogan on LinkedIn
    • Ksenya Kogan’s Website
    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn


    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also a brand-new journey filled with hope and growth. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.


    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    31 m
  • 33. Navigating Emotional and Financial Stress During Divorce with Dr. Leanne Miller
    Jun 26 2025

    Divorce can be emotionally brutal, but it doesn't have to break you. In this episode, Dr. Leanne Miller, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares how simple tools like the “practice of the pause” and box breathing can help you regain control in high-stress moments. We also unpack why men often struggle more with emotional processing and how shifting support systems are starting to change that. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the thick of it, this conversation offers a clear path toward healing with clarity and strength.

    Key takeaways:

    • The “practice of the pause” helps stop reactive decisions and brings calm to heated moments.
    • Men benefit from therapy and support groups now more than ever, even if they’re late to the party.
    • Emotional regulation directly shapes how your kids cope with the changes around them.

    Connect with us!

    • Dr. Leanne Miller on LinkedIn
    • Dr. Leanne Miller’s Website
    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also a brand-new journey filled with hope and growth. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    27 m
  • 32. Child Support vs. Alimony: Financial Considerations in Divorce
    Jun 12 2025

    The financial fallout of divorce is full of myths, especially when it comes to child support and alimony. In this episode, we cut through the confusion to explain how these obligations actually work, from calculation methods and common misconceptions to modification rules and termination triggers. We explore why lifetime alimony is mostly a thing of the past, how support models differ across states, and why child support remains non-negotiable even when alimony isn’t. Whether you're navigating divorce yourself or advising someone who is, this episode will give you the clarity you didn’t know you needed.

    Key takeaways:

    • Lifetime alimony is rare, with courts favoring short-term, rehabilitative support.
    • Child support calculations vary by state and cannot be permanently waived.
    • Alimony can be modified or waived entirely, but only under specific legal conditions.

    Connect with us!

    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also a brand-new journey filled with hope and growth. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    24 m
  • 31. How Collaborative Divorce Protects Your Privacy, Peace, and Finances with Nicole Stednitz
    May 29 2025

    Divorce doesn’t have to mean emotional warfare and courtroom showdowns.

    In this episode, attorney Nicole Stednitz introduces the collaborative divorce model—an out-of-court approach where couples work with a team of legal, financial, and emotional professionals to find sustainable, family-focused solutions. We unpack how the disqualification clause builds real accountability, why collaborative divorce often costs less than litigation, and how this model protects both your privacy and your peace. If you’re navigating separation and want something more thoughtful than a legal battle, this conversation is your starting point.

    Key takeaways:

    • The disqualification clause incentivizes resolution over court battles.
    • Collaborative teams provide tailored, multi-expert support in legal, financial, and emotional areas.
    • The process is private, often more affordable, and results in lasting, customized agreements.

    Connect with us!

    • Nicole Stednitz on LinkedIn
    • Torrance Family Law
    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start of a brand-new journey filled with opportunities. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    34 m
  • 30. What Children Really Need When Parents Separate with Stephanie Seal
    May 15 2025

    What do kids really need when parents divorce? In this episode, licensed psychotherapist Stephanie Seal joins us to talk about how children experience separation—and what parents can do to protect their emotional well-being along the way.

    We cover common misconceptions, including why younger kids often internalize divorce more than we realize, and how even well-meaning silence can leave lasting impact. Stephanie offers practical guidance for age-appropriate conversations, co-parenting with compassion, and helping kids stay connected to both parents without loyalty binds or confusion.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why younger kids may struggle more than older ones
    • How to keep communication ongoing, not just one-and-done
    • What to avoid saying about your ex
    • When therapy can help (and why it’s not just for crisis)

    Connect with us!

    • Stephanie Seal on LinkedIn
    • Stephanie Seal’s Website
    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start of a brand-new journey filled with opportunities. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    30 m
  • 29. Getting Along with Your Ex’s Partner (and Your Kid’s New Step-Parent) with Lesa Ferguson
    May 1 2025

    Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but it can be done! As long as it’s built on a foundation of respect, teamwork and love.

    In this heartfelt episode of Cover Your Assets, Lesa Ferguson joins us to share her real-world experiences as a step-parent—and how she helped create a harmonious, blended family after divorce. From setting boundaries to putting kids first, we dive into the emotional side of co-parenting, the challenges step-parents face, and why communication between all parents is key.

    In this episode, we cover:

    • How setting clear boundaries strengthens relationships between parents and step-parents
    • Why giving kids emotional stability before introducing new partners matters
    • How open communication between all parents helps avoid confusion and conflict
    • Why keeping the focus on the kids makes blended families stronger


    Connect with us!

    • Lesa Ferguson on Instagram
    • Activate Your Light
    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start of a brand-new journey filled with opportunities. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    23 m
  • 28. Legal Separation Explained: How a Date Impacts Your Divorce with Diane Nguyen
    Apr 17 2025

    On this episode of Cover Your Assets, we’re breaking down the critical — and often overlooked — difference between date of separation and legal separation during divorce. Attorney Diane Nguyen explains why this distinction matters, especially in high-asset cases where bonuses, stock options, or home appreciation could be at stake.

    We cover how California defines separation, why the exact timing can significantly impact your financial settlement, and when legal separation might be the right choice for couples navigating complex finances.

    Connect with us!

    • Diane Nguyen on LinkedIn
    • Clement, Fitzpatrick and Kenworthy, Inc
    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start of a brand-new journey filled with opportunities. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    24 m
  • 27. Are Prenups Planning For Failure?
    Apr 3 2025

    On this episode of “Cover Your Assets,” we explore how prenups have evolved from a taboo symbol of distrust to proactive agreements for financial transparency. Growing in popularity from 3% in 2010 to 15% today, couples are realizing that prenups aren’t just for the wealthy. They help protect assets, manage debts, and even safeguard blended families. Whether you're planning your first wedding or healing from divorce and considering a second chance at love, tune in for tips on turning tough money talks into relationship-strengthening conversations.

    • Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn
    • Jade Eagles on LinkedIn

    Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start of a brand-new journey filled with opportunities. Join us for practical tips for financial empowerment and insights to make this time a little less daunting.

    Invite us on your journey at coveryourassetsdivorce.com.

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    24 m