In this heartfelt episode of Thriving Parenting, we explore why co-regulation is more than a trendy term—it’s an essential tool to help your child feel safe, connected, and understood. Jen paints relatable scenarios, like calming a baby after vaccinations or soothing a toddler mid-meltdown, to illustrate how your nervous system influences your child’s.

You’ll learn:

• What co-regulation actually is (and what it isn’t)
• How it wires your child’s brain for future self-regulation
• Why you can’t co-regulate when you’re dysregulated yourself
• Simple frameworks to anchor yourself before you step in to help
• Why “saying less and being more” is often the best approach
• How to handle common barriers like sensory overload, exhaustion, and unhelpful cultural advice

Jen also shares powerful reminders: that self-care isn’t selfish, and your calm presence is the ultimate gift to your child’s emotional development.

Key Takeaway:

Co-regulation is about lending your steady nervous system so your child learns they are safe in all their feelings. When you prioritise your own regulation first, you create a foundation of trust, resilience, and lifelong emotional strength.

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For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 69 Show Notes

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