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In this deeply honest episode of Can't Host, writer and therapist Wayne Scott opens up about the complexities of queer identity beyond binary labels like "gay" or "straight." Reflecting on his journey of coming out later in life while raising children and navigating a heterosexual marriage, Wayne shares the nuances of bisexuality, the pain of having his truth oversimplified, and the liberation found in embracing his queerness. We explore how shame has shaped—and ultimately evolved—his story, what it means to not “queer correctly,” and how he’s reclaimed his narrative outside the confines of traditional queer tropes. For anyone questioning their identity within a straight relationship, this episode offers profound insight, compassion, and hope.

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ABOUT WAYNE SCOTT

Wayne Scott’s writing has appeared in The Sun, Poets and Writers, The Psychotherapy Networker, Huffington Post, and The Oregonian, among others. His New York Times essay, “Two Open Marriages in One Small Room” (January 2020) was adapted for the Modern Love podcast and read by Edoardo Ballerini (summer 2021). He is a writer, psychotherapist, and teacher in Portland, Oregon.

Website: https://www.waynescottwrites.com/

Instagram: @waynejosephscott

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Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

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Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg

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In this raw and radically honest episode of Can’t Host, I’m joined by sex writer and activist Alexander Cheves—author of My Love Is a Beast: Confessions—to dive deep into the world of kink, fetish, and fisting. We explore the psychology behind bottoming anxiety, how to train for intense sexual experiences, and the sacred role kink can play in healing shame. From his evangelical upbringing to becoming a national voice for queer erotic liberation, Alexander opens up about sex work, substance use, and the fears many gay men carry around their bodies and desires. This is an unfiltered conversation about reclaiming pleasure, breaking taboos, and turning your kink into a path of self-love.

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ABOUT ALEX CHEVES

Alexander Cheves is a Berlin-based author and sex educator. He writes the "Last Call" sex and culture column for Out Magazine and is the author of "My Love Is a Beast: Confessions," an erotic essay collection from Unbound Edition Press, and his next book will come out in the fall of 2026.

Website: http://alexcheves.com/

Instagram: @badalexcheves

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Orgies, Sex Parties and the City: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/67065c2447b414d1544aa774

Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d2

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Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg

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What if the key to mind-blowing sex isn’t a new position—but a deeper connection to your body? In this juicy episode, somatic sex coach Court Vox breaks down the transformative power of touch, breath, and body awareness in unlocking deeper pleasure, healing sexual shame, and getting out of your head and into your crotch. We talk mindful masturbation, breathwork for better orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, and how to use somatic practices to create more intimacy—solo or with a partner. If you’ve ever felt disconnected during sex or want to feel more, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and turn yourself the f*ck on.

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ABOUT COURT VOX

Court Vox is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Coach, Surrogate Partner, and the Founder of The BodyVox. Through his courses, workshops, retreats, and private immersions, he helps clients overcome limitations and shame, fostering deeper intimacy and connection with their whole selves.

Website: http://www.thebodyvox.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebodyvox

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Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

MY BOOKS

Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg

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