Hey there ColorBeams!!

Ever feel like you're being taken advantage of by the people closest to you—family, friends, or even your partner? In this episode we’re asking tough questions like: Did WE roll out the welcome mat for mistreatment?🤔

Sometimes we don't realize how our need to please, avoid conflict, or be the “strong one” teaches others how to treat us. And without boundaries, it’s easy to go from being kind… to being walked on. Let’s talk about how to take your power back, set clear expectations, and stop inviting the kind of treatment you never signed up for.

If you’ve ever felt like a doormat in your own life, this episode is for you. Don’t just watch—reflect, reclaim, and reset. 💥

👇 Drop a comment if you’re learning to say NO without guilt.

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Your boundaries are the welcome mat to your peace. Set them. Protect them. Live

✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜

Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given.

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Hey there ColorBeams,

Have you ever been in a relationship that looked perfect on the outside, but felt off on the inside?

They called you multiple times a day, fixed every problem before you could even react, and wanted to be with you 24/7. At first, it felt like devotion… but eventually, it became too much.

When affection turns into obsession and helpfulness becomes control, you're no longer in a healthy space—you’re in a Love Overdose. 💊

In this episode, we unpack the difference between genuine love and unhealthy excess.

Whether you're experiencing this now or starting to recognize your own patterns, let’s talk about what love should look and feel like to us.

Sometimes it's not the quality, it's the quantity that's the problem.

💌 Share this episode with someone who might be in a colorful situation right now.

Drop your thoughts in the comments:

Have you ever been in a Love Overdose? What helped you get out—or what kept you in?

✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜

🔔 Don’t forget to like, share, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss a conversation that just might change your outlook.

Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given.

The Gottman Feeling wheel:

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🎶 Intro/Outro Music:

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Hey there, Colors Beams!

IF you feel like conflict is bad for your relationship...think again.

Conflict doesn’t have to be a red flag — it can be an opportunity. A chance to communicate your needs, confront what's not working, and create real change. In this episode, we unpack conflict and why avoiding disagreements might be doing more harm than good.

Sometimes, you’ve got to shake things up to move the needle forward. Whether it's about setting boundaries, expressing unmet needs, or just finding common ground, conflict can be the conversation starter your relationship needs.

If you're walking on eggshells to avoid a fight, you might be in a colorful situation we call "The Big C." Let's talk about it!!

💬 Drop a comment: How do you and your partner handle conflict?

✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜

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Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000

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The Big "C" in relationships is Conflict AND it’s not the end of the world — it’s the beginning of understanding because it’s not about avoiding it but about growing through it.

How you handle it comes down to three things. Whether it’s a tough talk, a necessary shift, or meeting in the middle — real love requires all three. 🧠❤️

Can your relationship handle the Big C?

Tag your partner or bestie — it’s time to talk!

Tune in to hear how we’ve navigated the Big C in our marriages — and how you can too.

Let’s go ColorBeams!! LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!!!!!

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Hey there, Colors Beams!

Are you finding yourself going in circles—moving, but going nowhere fast? Like a spinning top, life and love can feel dizzying when we repeat the same patterns and expect different outcomes.

This week, we are talking about relationships, growth, and breaking free from toxic loops. If you’re ready to press pause on your own cycle and start fresh, tune in, and Let's talk about it!

✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜

Have you ever felt stuck in your own spin cycle? Drop your thoughts in the comments, share your story, or ask us a question—we might feature it in an upcoming episode!

🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss a conversation that just might change your cycle.

Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given.

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Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000

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Hey there, Colors Beams!

Ever felt like the black sheep in your family — cut off, misunderstood, or judged for living your truth because you didn't fit the mold? In this episode, we’re unpacking what happens when family uses religion, tradition, or guilt as a weapon to try to control you.

Sometimes, choosing yourself, your peace, your identity, and your growth means walking away — and that doesn’t make you wrong.

So, if you've heard “we know what’s best” or “blood is thicker than water” used to silence you, this conversation is for you.

Let’s talk boundaries, healing, and creating space for chosen family and maybe give a voice to those that have walked away AND those that struggle to walk away.💜💙💜💙

✨ You are not alone. You are not wrong. You are not the only one.

Share your story in the comments or tag someone who needs to hear this.

Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given.

Your voice matters. Your truth matters. You matter.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest, unfiltered conversations. Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it!

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🎶 Intro/Outro Music:

Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000

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