In this episode of The Choose Your S.O.U.L. Show, we sit down with relationship healer Natalie Russell to dive deep into breaking toxic relationship cycles and stepping into self-worth. Natalie shares her powerful journey from self-destruction to self-love, revealing how unresolved childhood wounds, subconscious patterns, and attachment styles shape the relationships we attract.

We discuss:

✨ Why we repeat toxic dynamics (and how to break free) Unresolved childhood wounds, attachment styles, and subconscious beliefs often lead us into repeating unhealthy relationship patterns. Natalie explains how self-awareness and shifting internal narratives help break the cycle. True transformation comes from recognizing these patterns and consciously choosing different dynamics.

✨ The connection between self-worth and the relationships we attract Our relationships mirror our self-perception—when we lack self-worth, we attract people who reinforce that belief. Setting boundaries, embodying self-love, and healing inner wounds shift the dynamic, drawing in healthier connections. When we choose ourselves first, we naturally attract relationships that align with our value.

✨ Masculine & feminine energy balance in love and life The polarity between masculine and feminine energy creates harmony in relationships, but imbalances can cause conflict. Learning to embrace our natural energy and finding a partner who complements it deepens connection and attraction. The key is self-awareness—knowing when to step into each energy to create balance.

✨ How fitness & self-discipline impact intimacy and confidence Physical health directly influences confidence, energy levels, and emotional resilience, all of which impact relationships. Prioritizing self-care fosters discipline and self-respect, strengthening both attraction and connection. A shared commitment to well-being enhances intimacy and long-term compatibility.

✨ The role of spiritual growth in relationships A spiritual awakening can either strengthen or challenge a relationship, depending on alignment and mutual respect. While growth should never be forced, shared values create deeper connection. True partnership allows space for personal evolution while maintaining harmony.

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This conversation is packed with insight, humor, and practical steps to help you elevate your relationships—starting with the one you have with yourself. Tune in, grow your mind, and strengthen your soul with us today!

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