Ever said yes when you wanted to scream no? Same. In this episode, we dive into the messy world of people pleasing — where it comes from, how it shows up in sneaky ways (even in marriages and friendships), and why trying to keep everyone happy might actually be robbing you of your real self.

We dig into things like: 👉 Why is it so hard to disappoint people? 👉 Can you be fully yourself and a people pleaser? 👉 Does it actually hurt connection more than it helps?

You'll walk away feeling seen, maybe called out (in the best way), and reminded that it’s okay to disappoint others — and that the people who love you can handle it.

This one's for the over-functioners, the “I just want everyone to be okay” crew, and anyone learning to take their dang power back.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Why hasn’t love happened for me yet?”—this episode is for you.

Dave flips the script and interviews me about my experience being single until 32. I open up about the internal narratives I wrestled with, the societal pressure I felt, and the fears that made me question if real love was still possible for me.

We talk about: • The sneaky ways our beliefs block us from love • What I wish I did differently • Why healing before dating matters • How to actually put yourself out there without losing yourself

Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, or simply feeling behind in love, this episode is here to remind you: your story isn’t late—it’s right on time. And yes, love is still possible. In fact, it might just be better than you imagined.

Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us:

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