Episodios

  • Carta Monir
    Mar 23 2025

    In this episode, Jet and Ren return after a long hiatus and are joined by your favorite girlfriend, author, artist, and porn performer: Carta Monir!


    Discussion includes the subjects of gracefully navigating complex relational webs, figuring out how to advocate for our desires in contexts where people don't know how to communicate, as well as learning self-acceptance and embracing sexuality as a person with emerging disabilities.


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    Carta's Links


    Samuel Delany


    Cover Photo Credit: Wondra

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    1 h y 19 m
  • Pod Mapping for Radical Relating
    Dec 9 2023

    In this episode of A Secret Third Thing, Jet and Ren record themselves while presenting live to an audience of people from their locale (the Midwest) and talk about the importance of Pod Mapping when carving out intentional non-traditional relationships. They also respond in real time to questions from their curious audience. Content Note: This was recorded outside near a busy road. We did the best we could to minimize noise interference but the audio is harsher than our other content.


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    Pod Mapping (BATJ)


    Pacing Protocol

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    42 m
  • Rejection
    Jul 28 2023

    In this episode Jet and Ren discuss the theme of rejection and the ways that it has shown up in their lives as a window in to how it plays a bigger role in disconnection within the queer community.


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    References/Resources:


    Access Intimacy - Mia Mingus


    RA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill


    "Fucking Trans Women" - Mira Bellwether

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    47 m
  • The Pandemic Fucked Us
    Jul 4 2023

    In this episode, Jet and Ren discuss the ways the pandemic has impacted their relationship with each other and with their desires more generally.


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    References/Resources:


    Panzine


    Queer Desire Party Zine



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    54 m
  • Introduction
    Jun 26 2023

    In this episode, Jet and Ren introduce themselves and the podcast by sharing about their secret third things and their journeys to get to where they are in understanding their orientations towards intimate relationships.


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    References/Resources:

    Earthseed - Octavia Butler

    RA Manifesto - Andie Nordgren

    Pod Mapping - Mia Mingus

    RA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill

    NRE - Multiamory Podcast

    Aromantic Manifesto - yingchen & yingtong

    Disability Justice - Sins Invalid



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    50 m