Episodios

  • Ep 31 - A Mother’s Anticipatory Grief: Love, Loss, and the Space In Between
    Jul 1 2025

    Grief doesn't adhere to a schedule.

    It comes in waves, in quiet moments, and sometimes in the most unexpected ways.

    My guest today Vicki Holton has walked through many forms of grief, each unique in its own weight.

    Now, she faces a new and deeply painful chapter: the anticipatory grief of knowing her son lives with a life-limiting heart condition.

    In this heartfelt conversation, we explore the complexities of grieving—what it looks like, how it evolves, and what might lie ahead.

    While this episode holds sorrow, it is also woven with hope, strength, and unexpected light.


    Recommended Book: Love You Forever by Robert Munsch


    If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might find it helpful.

    Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review – it helps us reach more people navigating the journey of grief.


    Connect with Vicki through her socials: Vicki Holton

    Instagram: AEBWELLNESS


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    1 h y 4 m
  • Ep 30 - Grief and the Afterlife: Medium Grant Harris on Connecting with the Spirit World
    Jun 17 2025

    In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode we welcome Grant Harris, a gifted medium who has dedicated his life to helping people find peace, closure, and healing through spiritual connection.

    As someone who bridges the gap between the physical world and the spirit world, Grant shares how mediumship can be a powerful tool in the grieving process.

    He is known for his compassionate, grounded approach to spiritual connection.

    He works with individuals and groups to help them find comfort and clarity after loss and is passionate about helping people understand that they are never truly alone.


    Together, we explore how connecting with loved ones who have died can offer validation, comfort, and sometimes even the permission to move forward. Whether you're a sceptic, a believer, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers compassionate insight into how mediumship can provide hope for those navigating the pain of loss.


    What We Cover in This Episode:

    What a medium is and how Grant discovered his abilities

    Common misconceptions and fears around mediumship

    Real-life stories of how spirit communication has helped the grieving

    How validation from spirit can ease guilt, unanswered questions, and unresolved emotions

    Tips for those who are curious or seeking a session with a medium

    The importance of ethical, compassionate practice in spiritual work


    Why It Matters:

    Grief is often filled with lingering "what ifs," regrets, and a yearning for continued connection. Mediumship, when practiced responsibly, can offer reassurance that our loved ones are still with us in spirit and that love truly transcends death. Grant’s work illustrates how these messages can become a profound part of the healing journey.


    Checkout his website: www.grantharrismedium.com


    If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might find it helpful.

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    38 m
  • Ep 29 - Walking Through Grief: Finding Healing Together.
    Jun 3 2025

    Clare Spiers has dedicated her career to supporting individuals navigating the complex journey of grief, drawing from her own diverse experiences with loss. Having personally faced various forms of grief, she understands the profound impact it can have on one’s life. Through her own therapeutic journey, Clare was able to address and resolve her unresolved grief, ultimately becoming a certified Grief Recovery Specialist.


    In her practice, Clare offers innovative walk-and-talk grief groups and retreats, providing a compassionate space for individuals to process their emotions in a supportive environment. Many of the most effective therapists are those who have endured significant emotional challenges themselves; they transform their pain into purpose. Clare exemplifies this transformative journey, using her experiences to guide others toward healing and hope.


    Website: www.peopleboost.co.uk


    Books recommended: The Grief Recovery Handbook by John James and Russell Friedman


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    43 m
  • Ep 28 - Positive Grief: Navigating Loss, Huntington’s Disease, and Finding Hope.
    May 20 2025

    Paramjit experienced a haunting premonition about her husband’s funeral, shortly before receiving the devastating news that he had been involved in a traffic accident. Following a head injury, he underwent a brain scan, which revealed the presence of Huntington's disease. Tragically, Paramjit’s husband succumbed to this illness in October 2002. Just a day later, their daughter, Sheenam, was diagnosed with juvenile Huntington’s disease, a far more aggressive variant of the condition.


    In the wake of profound loss and the ongoing anticipatory grief surrounding her daughter’s diagnosis, Paramjit has emerged as a remarkable authority on the complexities of grief. Despite these overwhelming challenges, she is affectionately known as "Positive Paramjit," embodying resilience and hope in the face of adversity.


    Recommended books:

    Why Me, Why This, Why Now? by Robin Norwood


    Books paramjit has been a contributing author.

    Golden Threads by Sue Williams

    Huntingtons's heroes - chapter titled Sheenams wish

    Turning points moments - chapter titled opening the gifts of care

    Women of Spirit - ordinary women extraordinary lives chapter titled - Thank you Daddy I'm no longer afraid of dying.


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  • Ep 27 - Messages From Beyond: Can Mediumship Help Us Heal From Grief?
    May 6 2025

    My guest today, Dayle Adams eloquently talks about her role as a psychic medium and how it can support people who are grieving.

    Mediumship is a controversial topic among believers and sceptics alike.

    While some may dismiss this practice as mere trickery - many individuals find solace in connecting with their departed loved ones.

    Mediums claim to communicate with spirits of the deceased, providing comfort and closure to those left behind.

    They work like a cosmic phone line connecting and delivering messages from the other side.

    The idea that our loved ones continue to exist in some form after death can bring a sense of peace and reassurance during times of intense sorrow.

    Dealing with grief is never easy, but some people turn to mediumship as a way to cope with the loss of a loved one.

    Whether you believe in the validity of mediumship or not, it is undeniable that it offers a unique perspective on how we can navigate the complex emotions of grief and find healing in different ways.


    Anything that brings us comfort it is a good thing.

    Recommended book: E-Squared by Pam Grout

    E-Squared is a lab manual with simple experiments to prove once and for all that there really is a good, loving, totally hip force in the universe.

    Rather than take it on faith, you are invited to conduct ten 48-hour experiments to prove each of the principles in this book.

    Yes, you read that right. It says prove.

    For more information about Dayle and the services and training

    she provides, check out her website: www.dayleadams.com


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    49 m
  • Ep 26 - Surviving Suicide Loss: Coping with the Aftermath.
    Apr 22 2025

    When Liza Wilson's first husband, Martijn, made the tragic decision to end his own life, he didn't just jump in front of a train - he ran towards it!


    This devastating moment not only shattered the future they had planned together, but also forced Liza to navigate the overwhelming shock, disbelief, and profound grief that accompanies suicide.


    The unanswered questions lingered, adding to her pain, and to make matters worse, Liza later discovered the staggering amount of debt they were in.


    It's rare for me to be at a loss for words, but witnessing Liza's incredible strength and resilience left me speechless.


    Conversations like these are not easy to have, and this episode is certainly a tough listen.


    Liza has survived a tragedy that most of us can't even imagine, yet today she courageously shares her story.


    While she may still be a work in progress, the loss of her father years later taught her the importance of letting go.


    For the last few years, Liza has taken herself along the path of self-development and this has been like therapy for her.


    She is now a transformative coach, trainer, author, and international speaker, deeply committed to empowering women through life’s transitions.


    With expertise in health, wealth, and relationships, she takes a holistic approach that honours the space between 'no longer' and 'not yet.'


    Liza facilitates transformative change by inspiring and empowering clients to take ownership of their lives, turn challenges into opportunities, step confidently into their potential, and achieve their goals.


    Her trauma-informed, heart-centered, and somatic approach guides clients toward clarity and purpose while supporting the acceleration of personal and professional development.


    If Liza can turn her life around – we all can!


    If you would like to contact Liza, email: lizawilson@me.com


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    1 h y 11 m
  • Ep 25 - Grief and the Soul’s Journey: Healing Through Spiritual Beliefs.
    Apr 8 2025

    Today's guest is Jessica Harrison, co-founder of J D Therapies here in Warwickshire. Jessica also works in the wellness industry, so it was only a matter of time before our paths crossed.

    Get ready to delve into the fascinating world of past life regression, soul contracts, and reincarnation as Jessica guides us through her expertise. Her fascinating belief about life and death helped her to come to terms with the sudden death of her brother.

    Reflecting on her spiritual journey, Jessica shares, “I've always been spiritually minded ever since I was a young girl, I was always fascinated with Astrology growing up. My journey into Holistic therapies has been an ongoing unwinding path for many years.”


    If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might find it helpful.

    Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review – it helps us reach more people navigating the journey of grief.


    Check out Jessica's website here: https://jdtherapies.co.uk/


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    38 m
  • Ep 24 - When a Child Dies: A Mother’s Mission to Help Others.
    Mar 23 2025

    My guest today is Rachel Ollerenshaw whose daughter Molly died from cancer at the tender age of 8.


    Losing a child is an unimaginable and heartbreaking experience that no parent should ever have to go through. It can leave emotional scars that may never fully heal, impacting every aspect of a person's life.


    Despite facing such a devastating loss, Rachel alongside her Husband Tim, found the strength to establish a charity in honour of their daughter Molly.

    This charity, known as Molly Olly’s, serves as a beacon of hope and support for other families going through similar hardships.


    We all find our own ways to deal with grief and Rachel has found her way through her amazing charity www.Mollyollys.co.uk

    This charity not only keeps Molly’s memory alive – it helps thousands of other families going through the darkest days of their lives.


    Molly Olly’s is a small charity but if you can afford to donate, you will be supporting a charity very close to my heart.


    https://mollyolly.co.uk/


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    42 m