Editor and author Michele Filgate returns with a powerful follow-up to her bestselling anthology What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About—this time turning the lens on fatherhood.

In this episode, Estelle Erasmus chats with Michele about the personal and professional transformations that shaped What My Father and I Don’t Talk About, how TikTok gave her earlier book a second life, and what it really takes to build a lasting literary career.

In this episode:

• What changed between publishing her first and second anthology [2:26]

• The unexpected TikTok virality that reignited interest in her debut [4:20]

• How grief, marriage, and motherhood shaped her latest work [10:12]

• What it takes to edit a balanced, emotionally resonant collection [12:24]

• Advice for writers looking to create and publish anthologies [13:44]

• Why literary citizenship is crucial to a sustainable writing career [18:01]

• Michelle’s next chapter: turning inward to publish her own book [23:31]

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Michele Filgate is the editor of What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About and What My Father and I Don’t Talk About. Her writing has appeared in Longreads, Poets & Writers, The Washington Post, Los Angeles Times, The Boston Globe, The Paris Review Daily, Tin House, Gulf Coast, Oprah Daily, and many other publications. She received her MFA in Fiction from NYU, where she was the recipient of the Stein Fellowship. She teaches creative writing at The New School.

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