What if your deepest wound wasn’t that they took too much...
But that you kept giving?

In this raw, unfiltered dispatch from the heart, Anton Volney pulls back the curtain on a lifelong habit that nearly destroyed him—pathological over-giving. Trained from childhood to win love by being useful, he found himself in a pattern of one-sided relationships, emotional exhaustion, and invisible self-abandonment.

But then something snapped.

This isn’t a book about being “nice.” It’s about waking up.
About seeing the invisible contracts you never agreed to.
And about reclaiming the power you didn’t know you gave away.

Through personal stories, brutal self-reflection, and deep psychological insight, Volney traces how childhood survival strategies become adult self-sabotage—and how to reverse the damage without losing your generosity or soul.

Inside, you’ll discover:

• Why some people are magnetically drawn to over-givers—and how to break the cycle

• The subtle addiction of chasing approval, and how to detox

• What makes someone a “taker,” and why they always find you

• How to install personal boundaries without guilt, drama, or explanation

• The voodoo magic of walking away—and why the right people show up when you finally do

If you’ve ever felt used, unseen, or like the world only wants you when you’re useful… this isn’t just a book. It’s a mirror.

And once you see the truth, you can never unsee it.