One and Only Audiolibro Por Lauren Sandler arte de portada

One and Only

The Freedom of Having an Only Child, and the Joy of Being One

 Vista previa
OFERTA POR TIEMPO LIMITADO

3 meses gratis
Prueba por $0.00
La oferta termina el 31 de julio, 2025 a las 11:59PM PT.
Elige 1 audiolibro al mes de nuestra colección inigualable.
Escucha todo lo que quieras de entre miles de audiolibros, Originals y podcasts incluidos.
Accede a ofertas y descuentos exclusivos.
Premium Plus se renueva automáticamente por $14.95/mes después de 3 meses. Cancela en cualquier momento.

One and Only

De: Lauren Sandler
Narrado por: Lauren Sandler
Prueba por $0.00

$0.00/mes despues de 3 meses. La oferta termina el 31 de julio, 2025 a las 11:59PM PT. Cancela en cualquier momento.

Compra ahora por $17.19

Compra ahora por $17.19

Confirma la compra
la tarjeta con terminación
Cambiar método de pago
Al confirmar tu compra, aceptas las Condiciones de Uso de Audible y el Aviso de Privacidad de Amazon. Impuestos a cobrar según aplique.
Cancelar

Journalist Lauren Sandler is an only child and the mother of one. After investigating what only children are really like and whether stopping at one child is an answer to reconciling motherhood and modernity, she learned a lot about herself - and a lot about our culture's assumptions. In this heartfelt work, Sandler legitimizes a discussion about the larger societal costs of having more than one.

Between the recession, the stresses of modern life, and the ecological dangers ahead, there are increasing pressures on parents to think seriously about singletons. Sandler considers the unique ways that singletons thrive and why so many of their families are happier. One and Only examines these ideas, including what the rise of the single-child family means for our economies, our environment, and our freedom, leaving the listener "informed and sympathetic", writes Nora Krug in the Washington Post.

Through this journey, "Sandler delves deeply, thoughtfully, and often humorously into history, culture, politics, religion, race, economics, and of course, scientific research", writes Lori Gottlieb, The New York Times Book Review. At the end, Sandler has quite possibly cracked the code of happiness, demonstrating that having just one may be the way to resolve our countless struggles with adulthood in the modern age.

©2013 Lauren Sandler (P)2020 Tantor Ciencias Sociales Crianza y Familias Estudios sobre Niños Relaciones Sociología Felicidad
Todas las estrellas
Más relevante  
Well written and entertaining. This book is full of incredible citations. I needed this book. I’m at a point in my life where I would like to experience motherhood but the number of children is still up for debate. Slowly over time the idea of an only child became appealing to me. This book helped me understand more about parenting a child without siblings. Currently I’m debating between having 1 or having 2. I felt comforted by this book and informed. There’s no wrong number of children a family can have and a family is complete without or with a child in it.

Incredible

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
The performance and story were quite enjoyable! As someone who comes from a very large family, it was eye opening to hear Lauren's experience being an only child. She did an excellent job of compiling information and statistics in a digestible way. I would absolutely recommend this book to those with one child, or those considering getting pregnant.

Thought Provoking

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
I sought out this book when I was trying to decide if we were going to be "one and done". I felt that I needed more information to help inform the decision. This book is admittedly, obviously presented as a defense of and proponent for only children, but it is not 100% one-sided and provides a lot of real statistics to back things up. A lot of it is does feel somewhat anecdotal but this did not bother me. There is a LOT of biased, outdated and just incorrect information floating out there in society that is against only children. This book serves to balance the scales a little and present a more honest, complete picture.

Perhaps the thing that stuck with me the most is that in practically every single measurable way only children succeed at the same or higher rates than people with siblings. And the one main thing that the author seemed to readily admit was a challenge unique to onlies is that when their parents die they can experience a feeling of profound aloneness that is more acute than someone with close siblings. A feeling of being "the only one left". However the author went on to point out that death of a loved one is never easy, and even when surrounded by supportive loved ones (siblings or otherwise) there is often a feeling of emptiness and aloneness. It is part of the grieving process and not inherently problematic. And having siblings in no way guarantees that that feeling will be any different, as the strength of sibling relationships is about as easy to predict as the strength of any friendship [it's not].

While it is good to be aware of the effects being an only can have on an individual, ultimately it is completely up to the parents to decide what is right for THEM first and foremost. We make many sacrifies for our children. Choosing whether to bring a second child into the world should not be one of those sacrifices. It should not be done simply because we think we need to, because it's what's expected. This book helped me understand the full picture and ultimately I felt comfortable and now so thrilled and relieved to make the decision to be one and done.

Helped me feel more informed

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Lauren Sandler narrates her novel from a viewpoint of well what about this sort or reaction. She teeters on the line of more or less children. I feel a bit unresolved with the conclusion of the book as a side was not chosen. Her reality is she has one kid and she is a single kid. Her global statistics are fascinating but again the book sometimes hit the hearts strings while other sections our purely research based. I think I would of preferred one or the other. I guess the writing appeals to a wider audience but felt like I wanted to know more from her not the facts. It felt like she was combatting what critics might say about single kids versus totally embracing this choice and how she feels about her experience too.

Data Driven

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Great book full of solid information, facts and perspective on only children, thank you so much for writing this book!

Really Great!

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
I highly recommend this book. I just finished listening to this book for a second time. The first time was about 2 years ago. I have a 4 year old daughter and I’ve been wrestling with indecision about having another for years. This book, both times, has helped to empower me to dismantle stereotypes and the broad stroke assumptions that our society makes about only children. It’s helped me realize how much fear was fueling my “desires” about having a second. I love that Lauren is vulnerable in this book about her experiences as an only child and a parent of an only child. That even with all the research at hand it can still be an emotional issue. She doesn’t write from an overly optimistic view that dismisses a parent’s questions or concerns. She shared a variety of perspectives as well as data and thought provoking ideas. Ultimately, any family size has advantages and disadvantages. If I want to be a happy parent I need to be a happy person. It’s such an intensely personal idea to consider and reading this book gave me a lot of insight and permission to evaluate that for myself. I feel more clarity and confidence as a result of reading this book. Thank you, Lauren, for writing it!

Empowering

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
I was hoping to hear about all the great things and great people that are only children. But there is just way too much repetition about outdated research by some guy from the 1800s. She talks about how everyone knows about him and talks about movies that refer to only children as being demonic. It’s way too negative. I was not aware of any of this very sad inaccurate research and frankly don’t want to waste my time hearing about it. I wish this book was more about what is possible for only children and how to ensure that they get the best from their parents.

Too much negative talk about only children

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
Love the research & overall topic.

I am a mother to an only child, and was definitely looking forward to learning more about perspectives from an only child. It was a bummer as the book progressed, for a variety of reasons. It makes sense that the author would be biased, as we all are in different ways.

The author seemed like she has some really good points, with definite lack of insight for sure. She seems to maybe struggle with understanding people - who are exactly like her.

I really appreciate the author’s view in spots of the book, while also acknowledging her clear privileged & limited pov.

Hopefully in time more people will write about the only child experience, to add more voices from the valuable Singleton experience.

Overall rating: 2/5
Thank you

yikes girl

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.
she spends more time alking about Chinese culture, parents emotions over thier own child,and how justifying how being selfish is good, that I can not relate. the author is clearly a wealthy person from childhood and has no real grasp on the real world. it is so obvious listening to this that she is all about herself,,hence reiterating that she has no skill in actual empathy for middle class children who have no play mate

the author is disconnected from reality

Se ha producido un error. Vuelve a intentarlo dentro de unos minutos.