
Fed Up
Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward
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Gemma Hartley
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A rousing call to arms, packed with surprising insights, that explores how carrying "the mental load" - the thankless day-to-day anticipating of needs and solving of problems large and small - is adversely affecting women’s lives and feeding gender inequality, and shows the way forward for better balancing our lives.
Launching a heated national conversation with her viral article "Women Aren’t Nags; We’re Just Fed Up" - viewed more than two billion times - journalist Gemma Hartley gave voice to the frustration and anger of countless women putting in the hidden, underappreciated, and absolutely draining mental work that consists of keeping everyone in their lives comfortable and happy. Bringing long-overdue awareness to the daunting reality of emotional labor in our lives, Hartley defines the largely invisible but demanding, time-consuming, and exhausting "worry work" that falls disproportionately and unfairly on all women - no matter their economic class or level of education.
Synthesizing a wide variety of sources - history, sociology, economics, psychology, philosophy, and anthropology - Hartley makes the invisible visible, unveiling the surprising shapes emotional labor takes at work, at home, in relationships, and in parenting. With on-the-ground reporting, identifiable personal stories, and interviews from around the world, this feminist manifesto will empower women to transform their inner dialogue and give all women the emotional fortitude and courage to ask for what we most want - without shame, without guilt, and without the emotional baggage.
Beyond naming the problem, Fed Up offers practical advice and solutions for teaching both men and women how to wield emotional labor to live more full and satisfying lives. Hartley helps us to see emotional labor not as a problem to be overcome, but as a genderless virtue we can all learn to channel in our quest to make a better, more egalitarian world for ourselves and most importantly, our children.
Insightful, surprising, deeply relatable, and filled with all-too-familiar moments, this provocative, intelligent, and empathetic guide is essential listening for every woman who has had enough with feeling fed up.
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This Is How Your Marriage Ends
- A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships
- De: Matthew Fray
- Narrado por: Rob Shapiro
- Duración: 9 h y 15 m
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One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a call with a phone-in-therapist who told him to “journal his feelings,” Matthew Fray started a blog. He needed to figure out how his ex-wife went from the eighteen-year-old college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who thought he was an asshole and left him. As he pieced together the story of his marriage and its end, Matthew began to realize a hard truth: even though he was a decent guy, he was a bad husband.
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Good and bad advice mixed together
- De Timothy Webster en 08-05-22
De: Matthew Fray
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Screaming on the Inside
- The Unsustainability of American Motherhood
- De: Jessica Grose
- Narrado por: Suehyla El-Attar
- Duración: 6 h y 30 m
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In this timely and necessary book, New York Times opinion writer Jessica Grose dismantles two hundred years of unrealistic parenting expectations and empowers today’s mothers to make choices that actually serve themselves, their children, and their communities.
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Well done - leaves a little to be desired
- De Chendo en 12-29-22
De: Jessica Grose
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Rage Becomes Her
- The Power of Women's Anger
- De: Soraya Chemaly
- Narrado por: Soraya Chemaly
- Duración: 11 h y 3 m
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Women are angry, and it isn’t hard to figure out why. We are underpaid and overworked. Too sensitive or not sensitive enough. Too dowdy or too made-up. Too big or too thin. Sluts or prudes. We are harassed, told we are asking for it, and asked if it would kill us to smile. Yes, yes it would. Contrary to the rhetoric of popular “self-help” and an entire lifetime of being told otherwise, our rage is one of the most important resources we have, our sharpest tool against both personal and political oppression.
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Holy Raging Hell
- De Enid Quimby en 10-17-18
De: Soraya Chemaly
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Equal Partners
- Improving Gender Equality at Home
- De: Kate Mangino
- Narrado por: Suehyla El-Attar
- Duración: 9 h y 58 m
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As American society shut down due to COVID, millions of women had to leave their jobs to take on full-time childcare. As the country opens back up, women continue to struggle to balance the demands of work and home life. Kate Mangino, a professional facilitator for twenty years, has written a comprehensive, practical guide for listeners and their partners about gender norms and household balance. Yes, part of our gender problem is structural, and that requires policy change. But much of our gender problem is social, and that requires us to change.
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Very much needed book
- De joey en 08-21-22
De: Kate Mangino
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Find Your Unicorn Space
- Reclaim Your Creative Life in a Too-Busy World
- De: Eve Rodsky
- Narrado por: Eve Rodsky
- Duración: 8 h y 51 m
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Eve Rodsky realized that even when the domestic workload becomes more balanced, people still report something missing in their lives - that is, unless they create and prioritize time for activities that not only fill their calendars but also unleash their creativity. Rodsky calls this vital time Unicorn Space - the active and open pursuit of creative self-expression in any form that makes you uniquely YOU. She speaks with trailblazers, thought leaders, academics, and countless real people who have discovered theirs everywhere.
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Awful narration
- De Lammchops en 02-08-22
De: Eve Rodsky
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Muse
- The Magnetism of Women Who Stop Abandoning Themselves
- De: Dr. Amanda Hanson
- Narrado por: Amanda Hanson
- Duración: 8 h y 26 m
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For too long, womanhood has been defined by patriarchal structures that keep us women small, quiet, and at war with our bodies. It’s time for a radical return to true, self-led womanhood. In Muse: The Magnetism of Women Who Stop Abandoning Themselves, Dr. Amanda Hanson examines the history and current systems that put women in the position of living their lives based on their worth to men. She then guides us through exquisite rituals and practices to reclaim our womanhood and build our most beautiful lives.
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Such a POWERFUL message!!
- De Kindle Customer en 05-01-25
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All Joy and No Fun
- The Paradox of Modern Parenthood
- De: Jennifer Senior
- Narrado por: Jennifer Senior
- Duración: 8 h y 20 m
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Thousands of books have examined the effects of parents on their children. But almost none have thought to ask: What are the effects of children on their parents? In All Joy and No Fun, award-winning journalist Jennifer Senior tries to tackle this question, isolating and analyzing the many ways in which children reshape their parents' lives, whether it's their marriages, their jobs, their habits, their hobbies, their friendships, or their internal senses of self. She argues that changes in the last half century have radically altered the roles of today's mothers and fathers, making their mandates at once more complex and far less clear.
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The Joy of Parenting
- De Cynthia en 02-14-14
De: Jennifer Senior
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Fed Up
- An Insider's Take on Why the Federal Reserve Is Bad for America
- De: Danielle DiMartino Booth
- Narrado por: Danielle DiMartino Booth
- Duración: 9 h y 57 m
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In the early 2000s, as a Wall Street escapee writing a financial column for the Dallas Morning News, Booth attracted attention for her bold criticism of the Fed's low interest rate policies and her cautionary warnings about the bubbly housing market. Nobody was more surprised than she when the folks at the Dallas Federal Reserve invited her aboard. Figuring she could have more of an impact on Fed policies from the inside, she accepted the call to duty and rose to be one of Dallas Fed president Richard Fisher's closest advisors.
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straight forward brilliant
- De casey en 02-20-17
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A Better Share
- How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex
- De: Morgan Cutlip
- Narrado por: Morgan Cutlip
- Duración: 7 h y 52 m
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Relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip helps couples view the mental load—the endless and mostly invisible work of managing a household and family—as a shared enemy to conquer versus a problem they have with each other, offering practical solutions for navigating the most common pain points couples struggle with. Through research and stories based on real couples, A Better Share guides listeners out of the endless stress and resentment cycle and into a relationship where sharing is caring, having fun together is a priority, and great sex isn't a thing of the past.
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I’ve never related to a book so much in my life
- De Lori Jackson en 06-02-25
De: Morgan Cutlip
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The Will to Change
- Men, Masculinity, and Love
- De: bell hooks, Ross Gay
- Narrado por: Janina Edwards
- Duración: 6 h y 24 m
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Everyone needs to love and be loved—including men. But to know love, men must be able to look at the ways in which patriarchal culture keeps them from understanding themselves. In The Will to Change, bell hooks provides a compassionate guide for men of all ages and identities to understand how to be in touch with their feelings, and how to express versus repress the emotions that are a fundamental part of who we are.
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A unique call to an ethic of creative love
- De Forrest Aldridge en 09-26-20
De: bell hooks, y otros
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Us
- Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship
- De: Terrence Real
- Narrado por: Terrence Real, Bruce Springsteen
- Duración: 10 h y 11 m
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At a time when toxic individualism is rending our society at every level, bestselling author and renowned marriage counselor Terrence Real sees how it poisons intimate relationships in his therapy practice, where he works with couples on the brink of disaster. The good news: Warmer, closer, more passionate relationships are possible if you have the right tools. In his transformative new book Us, Real brilliantly observes how our winner-takes-all culture infiltrates families with devastating results.
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I preferred Fierce Intimacy
- De Jose en 06-23-22
De: Terrence Real
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The Wife Drought
- De: Annabel Crabb
- Narrado por: Annabel Crabb
- Duración: 7 h y 8 m
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'I need a wife'. It's a common joke among women juggling work and family, but it's no joke. Having a spouse who takes care of things at home is a godsend on the domestic front and an asset on the work front and is an advantage enjoyed by vastly more men than women. Full of candid and funny stories from politics and the media, The Wife Drought shares intriguing research about the attitudes pulsing beneath the surface of egalitarian Australia.
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Honest balanced and practical discussion of gender issues in politics.
- De Barry J. Marshall en 01-20-17
De: Annabel Crabb
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Unwell Women
- Misdiagnosis and Myth in a Man-Made World
- De: Elinor Cleghorn
- Narrado por: Hanako Footman
- Duración: 14 h y 8 m
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Elinor Cleghorn became an unwell woman 10 years ago. She was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease after a long period of being told her symptoms were anything from psychosomatic to a possible pregnancy. As Elinor learned to live with her unpredictable disease, she turned to history for answers, and found an enraging legacy of suffering, mystification, and misdiagnosis. In Unwell Women, Elinor Cleghorn traces the almost unbelievable history of how medicine has failed women by treating their bodies as alien and other, often to perilous effect.
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I have a fatal autoimmune disease too
- De The Iconoclast en 04-10-22
De: Elinor Cleghorn
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The ADHD Effect on Marriage
- Understand and Rebuild Your Relationship in Six Steps
- De: Melissa Orlov
- Narrado por: Laura Jennings
- Duración: 8 h y 3 m
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A resource for couples in which one of the partners suffers from attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), this book guides troubled marriages toward an understanding and appreciation for the struggles and triumphs of a relationship affected by it and to look at the disorder in a more positive way. Going beyond traditional marriage counseling, this discussion offers advice from the author's personal experience and years of research and identifies patterns of behavior that can hurt marriages.
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Worth the read for marriages with an ADHD spouse
- De Finck Thincks en 11-13-19
De: Melissa Orlov
Repetitive Yet Good
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Emotional labor burnout
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Good discussion, but repetitive
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Good information if you can get past the tone.
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Best book EVER!
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Fed up.
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Incredible book!
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Making visible shadow work
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I think my favorite point made by the author is that by passing off planning birthday parties, writing cards, or making chat phone calls I am missing out on a deeper connection with friends and family and experiencing a less full life, while also making things harder on my spouse.
Something the author partly satisfactorily addresses is that EL is also on us to a large degree. We carry it in the form of worry and stress that partners don’t necessarily feel. so while I might feel a ton of EL from the recycling not being take out, my partner might just not see it that way and feels none of the EL. At first the author really lays it on thick that her husband basically sucks at household things (but is still super progressive!) and doesn’t admit that her own feelings about chores was making it worse. She addresses that in the last few chapters, which I appreciated, but can also see how someone might give up on this book early on.
Some quibbles: the term “emotional labor” got used sooooo much. Don’t know if there’s a way around it, but another way of saying the phrase would’ve been nice. Also the narrator pronounced “minutiae” like “min-nooo-sha-ee” which I can’t find in any typical English pronunciation. Was really noticeable. Finally, the narrator would do accents for any quote, trying to mimic Hillary Clinton’s or a man’s or a black woman’s voice, which were universally bad.
Overall, the book was alright. I definitely learned from it and appreciate those lessons. I think they’ll make me a better husband. I also think it was tedious and unenjoyable to listen to for around 35%. Some of that is due to the book and some from the narration.
Decent
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Great content, repetitive.
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