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 Auto-generated transcript:My brothers and sisters, may Allah bless my dear friend and brother, Omar Abdullah, for asking me beautiful questions. He and a couple of others who I truly appreciate because of the very good questions they ask. And the result of those good questions is that they get me to think and hopefully, you know, create content for myself primarily and then for whoever else is listening, which is potentially beneficial for us all, inshallah. So yesterday we were in Boston and we were walking. We were actually at the ISBCC. Big mosque, Islamic center in Boston, which is a beautiful place. Very, very well run. And from there, we had to go and visit a dear friend who's in the children's hospital. He's had this fifth open heart surgery. So I'm also asking you all to, because this goes globally, so I'm asking you all to make a lot of dua. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. sitting there and I asked him so how are you feeling and so on he doesn't shake I recited in the Sunday school graduation ceremony I recited surah they are seen 20 ayat and I have memorized some more so can I recite I think I get I know a 30 I think so can I decide them for you I said so I mean I'm honored yeah and imagine this is this young man he is I think he's about 13 or something as starting of 14 and he is going to open-heart surgery he's obviously has major major health issues and we ask Allah to give him complete cure inshallah and he's not wasting his time sitting there in the in the ICU in the room you know he's not going to be able to do anything he's not going to be able to do anything he's not going to be able to do anything he's not going to be able to do anything he's not going to be in nature any kind of serious injury in his out of bed so then all of that you know so he immediately that's awesome two Sohail Advampal I have66000 something did you memorize the Quran yes half it there I tell you this is a it's it's not just a compliment remember it's MashaAllah may Allah bless them So we were at this masjid And we had to go to the children's hospital And we Umar and I we said Well how do we go Do we take Do we take the Umar Neither of us had a car So He said do we take the metro or what I said let's see how far it is And they said It was about a mile So I said Let's just walk And we walked Lovely day A bit hot and humid But you know Nothing to worry about We passed the Very impressive Frontage of Harvard Medical School as well On the And then we went and met the gentleman Now on the way Umar asked me this question And he said In a marriage How do you deal with conflict I guess this applies to everything It's not just a question of marriage And I said How do you deal with conflict So I told him I said the Way to deal with Conflict is Very simple First and foremost Um Define Both of you sit down Both spouses Sit down And define The conflict So what is the conflict about And I'm a great believer In writing things down So if you Um Write things down It clarifies The matter So I just sit down And define the conflict So now Think about this When you are Defining the conflict And the purpose of that Definition is not Is not to have Say how do I see it How do you You know What is the conflict Come to one definition So whichever Obviously there are two different ways of seeing it Because there are two people involved But Those two people Make sure that you come to Make one definition What is the conflict Now this If you think about this This exercise Itself Is an exercise of Coming together Or collaborating To do something So the focus shifts from What am I saying What is he saying Or what is she saying You know Who is right Who is wrong Who is You know More powerful Less powerful All the usual Political things Political stuff That happens Especially In marital conflicts But
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