After the Apology: Repairing Relationships Without Begging or Blaming by Logan Carr


You said, “I’m sorry.” Now what?

For any man who’s ever felt the sting of regret after a fight, a breakup, or years of silence—After the Apology is your steady guide forward.

This isn’t a book about groveling or trying to win someone back. It’s about rebuilding trust without losing yourself. About making space for someone’s anger without collapsing in shame. And about showing up with calm integrity—even when you’re not sure it’s welcome.

With compassion and clarity, Logan Carr helps men navigate the messy, often silent territory that follows an apology. Through real-life stories, practical tools, and everyday language, this book walks you through the process of repairing with partners, kids, friends, and exes—with dignity, emotional maturity, and grace.

Whether the door is still open or long closed, After the Apology offers grounded wisdom for what comes next.

You’ll learn how to:

• Apologize without over-explaining, defending, or disappearing

• Listen to someone’s pain without trying to fix it

• Rebuild trust through quiet consistency, not performance

• Parent with presence after a rupture

• Repair with old friends, even if it’s awkward

• Stay accountable without losing your sense of worth

This book is for men of all ages, life stages, and relationship histories. Whether you’re trying to mend a decades-long friendship or clean up after a short fuse, After the Apology will help you step forward with honesty, steadiness, and self-respect.

You’re not the man you were—and that’s the quiet win.