Are your daily actions aligned with who you say you are? That's the challenging question at the heart of this thought-provoking exploration with Dr. Taylor Hartman and Cat Larson. They dive deep into the concept of creating a moral backstop—a clear definition of who you are that acts as a foundation when life throws challenges your way.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Dr. Hartman shares his personal journey of choosing truth over being liked in his thirties, a decision that fundamentally altered his life path. This choice between authenticity and popularity represents a crossroads many of us face, often without recognizing its profound significance. As the discussion unfolds, we see how these seemingly simple choices form the bedrock of our mental health and relationship quality.

What sets this episode apart is its unflinching look at congruence—the alignment between our stated values and our daily choices. Through compelling examples, including a young woman who claims to value travel yet works at a job with no vacation days, we witness how incongruent living creates frustration and unfulfilled potential. Dr. Hartman challenges us to examine our true motives, going beyond surface behaviors to understand the root causes that drive our actions. This deep self-examination isn't easy, but as the conversation reveals, it becomes more natural with practice and yields profound rewards in authenticity and personal growth.

Ready to create a foundation that allows you to live with greater purpose and authenticity? Listen now to discover how defining yourself can transform your relationships and mental health. Share your thoughts about your own journey toward congruent living in the comments below!

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