Brooke’s Babbles: The Cracked Coffee Cup

This babble was inspired by a coffee mug my sister gave me on her wedding day as a thank-you for being her maid of honor. Nearly four years later, that mug sits beside me as I record—cracked but cherished. That little crack, likely from carelessly tossing a hand-wash-only mug into the dishwasher, hasn’t stopped me from loving or using it.

Why talk about a cracked coffee cup? Because sometimes the smallest, most ordinary things hold the most meaning. This blog isn’t just about big life moments—it’s about finding magic in the everyday.

Let me paint a picture: It’s Monday morning. You're tired, you reach for your favorite mug… and it’s gone. You’re a little thrown off. You start thinking about why you love that mug—who gave it to you, how it feels in your hand, the way it holds just the right amount of coffee. Suddenly, something seemingly small carries weight.

You're not alone. A friend recently told me about the mug he’s used since his teenage years, a gift from his dad. It’s nothing fancy, but it’s been with him through the seasons of fatherhood. He dreads the day it breaks. That stuck with me—not because it’s just about a mug, but because it’s about what it represents: comfort, memories, identity.

Here’s where the analogy kicks in: we are all like coffee mugs. If your favorite mug gets chipped or cracked, do you throw it away? Of course not. You might even treat it more gently, love it more deeply. So why don’t we treat ourselves—and each other—the same way?

We all have “cracks.” We’re tired, imperfect, worn at the edges. But those flaws don’t erase our worth. In fact, they can make us even more lovable. So here’s the real question: What if we viewed ourselves and others with the same tenderness we give to our favorite things? What if we accepted our cracks and loved each other more because of them?

The Spark

The spark I want to leave you with today is this: you are worthy of being someone’s favorite. Even if you feel too “cracked,” too tired, or too broken—there’s someone out there (even if it’s just you) who can look at you and see something irreplaceable.

That might be a romantic partner, a best friend, your child, or your own reflection in the mirror. You don’t need to be flawless to be treasured. You just need to be seen—and to believe you’re worth seeing.

So hold your cracks gently. Cherish the cracks in others. And remember: we don’t have to lose something to remember how valuable it is. Let's choose to love with our whole hearts, flaws and all.