"Unseen, unheard. We've lived like that far too long." These powerful opening words set the stage for an intimate conversation with her brother Peele Wimberly, a music producer and record company owner, in this revealing episode of Quiet, No More.

We explore the concept of respect from multiple angles, challenging conventional wisdom about how it functions in relationships and society. "Respect should be given until it's deemed unnecessary," Peele asserts, offering a fresh perspective on human dignity that doesn't rely on power dynamics or hierarchies. Our conversation weaves through personal experiences, family history, and broader societal structures, revealing how respect (or its absence) shapes everything from family interactions to national policies.

I share remarkable stories about our family legacy - pharmacists across generations, land ownership dating back to our four-times great grandfather who amassed 200 acres in eastern North Carolina, and how their mother's family was never enslaved. These personal histories stand in stark contrast to the limited narratives often taught in American classrooms, demonstrating why preserving and sharing such stories is an act of resistance against historical erasure.

The discussion takes unflinching looks at systemic issues - from America's disrespect toward other nations to the capitalist underpinnings of racial hierarchies. We explore how following the money reveals uncomfortable truths about American institutions, including how slave patrols evolved into modern law enforcement and how Social Security initially excluded farm workers and domestic servants. Through it all, my brother and I emphasize the importance of speaking up, voting in local elections, and recognizing privilege within our communities.

Join this powerful sibling conversation that will challenge you to examine your own understanding of respect, history, and responsibility. Then ask yourself: What truths have I kept quiet about that need to be spoken?

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Carmen Wimberley Cauthen is an author, speaker, and lover of history, Black history in particular. As a truth teller, she delights in finding the hidden truths about the lives of people who made a difference - whether they were unknown icons or regular everyday people.

To Learn more of Carmen:
www.carmencauthen.com
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