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Danielle

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Most millennial book ever

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3 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
2 out of 5 stars
Historia
3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 03-14-25

This book annoyed me so much… about 50% of the time… and I still found it worth the time (at least when listening at 1.5x because the reader’s speaking manner is very odd—really slow and then quick for a second and then slow again). I’m sure part of my reaction has to do with the depth of the “laziness lie” so I tried to work through my resistance to the message at times but my biggest frustration was that it felt really off topic a lot. I think the idea was stretched too far to include some things that didn’t fit at all, which felt gimmicky. Bottom line is that this book wasn’t what I was hoping it would be. I feel like I learned at least as much about millennial (or Gen Z? Hard to separate as a Gen Xer) queer culture than ideas about laziness. Which honestly is probably something I could stand to learn more about. I just don’t think that this book holds up to some of the more deeply researched, broader perspectives of the best cultural criticism of our time. As others have said, any reference to people outside the writer’s world felt shallow, half hearted and obligatory so as to say “I know I don’t know what people other than me think!” But I don’t see any effort to talk to those people or even about them. With all due respect, when more than half of the people you reference as examples use they/them pronouns, you just might be a little too insular in your scope and vision. The biggest missing perspective is from anyone who has to work a job they don’t love that they don’t derive meaning from, who isn’t an artist in their spare time or have a twenty-something’s commitment to activism as a part time job. It’s an interesting perspective certainly from an interesting demographic of people but not necessarily helpful to someone whose struggles with feeling lazy aren’t from balancing their art with their activism and gig work on their way to a dream job that gives their life meaning. Maybe I’m just too old, too Gen X, too much a parent in the thick of it, to be the target audience. I just think more people could benefit from this message but won’t feel included when all the anecdotes sound like they’re talking about the same person who is not coincidentally exactly like the writer in all the essential ways. The early chapters are the best with the most useful info for a diverse audience and I’d bet that the writer could do a rewrite with another decade of two of life experience and exposure to more humans not like them that would be really strong.

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Belonging

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
4 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 03-09-25

I really enjoyed this book but my biggest takeaway is that I wish that everyone who is an educator, an employer or who works in law enforcement would read the chapters about those things. There’s so much good advice that would be both simple to implement and really impactful.

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If I could

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
5 out of 5 stars
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3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 02-06-25

If I could force everyone in America right now to sit down and listen so something for a few hours, this would be it. While is it written a decade ago, it feels urgent in this moment of deep despair over the falling apart of everything. We should be glad this was written when it was because it would hardly seem possible to muster these days and it’s exactly what we need to hear. I’m guessing a lot of other moments would seem exactly as hopeless which is why this is bound to be an enduring classic, hopefully read by many generations to come. I wish it would go viral right now. At least among certain progressive activists or potential resisters. I know it’s exactly what I needed to read/listen to right now.

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Not what I expected

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4 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
3 out of 5 stars
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3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 10-27-24

I think this book is genuinely and misleadingly titled to appeal to a broader audience BUT I’m kinda glad I was tricked into listening because I probably wouldn’t have otherwise and I was a learning experience. It should be titled something like “How to Raise Kids to Follow the Teachings of Jesus in a World that Doesn’t.” I didn’t realize I was listening to a Christian conservative parent until the “abortion is murder” bit fairly early on. That’s not my worldview at all. But I think I benefited from hearing her out and truly listening to someone from the perspective of wanting to raise kids who make the world a better place (as I do) from a very different viewpoint. Even if I doubt the author would do the same thing and listen to parents from another perspective. There are things we very much have in common, like caring about poor women and children around the world and in our own communities, that I might not have expected. And of course we also make many different choices but it’s not that different to relate to anyone talking about how parenting is hard and those choices are difficult.while she is clearly a person of deep religious conviction, she is also humble and that makes all the difference. I wish that kind of orientation existed in our national conversation and if parents could talk to each other across difference like that, I believe there’s a lot that we could agree on that would change this country for the better.

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Such powerful stuff

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 10-24-24

This works goes so deep I’m gonna need to sit with it for a long time, maybe even revisit it. I’m so glad for the existence of this book for Black people and other people of color but as a white woman, it’s still very resonant and enlightening. Many of the essays are also beautiful pieces of writing especially Jason Reynolds who I’ve read before and Imani Perry whose book Breathe is next on my list.

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Audre Lorde is important

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
4 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 09-10-24

While I skipped through a couple of these essays where dated political commentary wasn’t of immediate interest to me (though it might well be to someone else), the clarity and depth of her shrewd observations of the world are still very relevant today. Where things have changed, I learned about American history from the Black female perspective that’s not what we usually hear, but more often her word still ring true today. She was a poetic visionary planted many seeds that have grown into full view today. More people should read these essays.

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Grab your tissues

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
4 out of 5 stars
Historia
5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 08-29-24

Not an easy listen, especially if you’re prompted by wanting to help a loved one at the end of their life. But you’ll be very grateful for the information, especially the stories shared, and honestly you probably need to cry anyway. I did. We’re so bad at facing this stuff and this book is a really practically useful tool. I’m glad to have it and will share it with others — but it’s still hard to look directly at the fact that we’re all gonna die. Like staring at the sun, it’s so present and intense but not something you can take in all at once without a filter. This book is like a filter to help you look straight at death, because as one of the chapters says it’s not gonna kill you to talk about death (but it sure does feel like it might!). I’m especially grateful for the specific prompts, suggestions about how and when to have this conversation and literally what to say. Exactly what I needed. My one critique is that it often sounded like the author was about to cry reading the stories which didn’t make it any easier (but maybe that’s not terrible, maybe it’s easier to cry when you have someone else to cry with - I don’t know).

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Classic, must-“read” for anyone who likes memoir

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
5 out of 5 stars
Historia
5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 08-29-24

I’ve had this book on my actual physical bookshelf since 1996 and only got a chapter or so into it. Not because I didn’t like it—I always meant to go back, But I’m actually really glad I listened to it instead because Karr’s voice is so incredible and felt so integral to the story and I think really added to the experience of the book. The story is certainly strong enough to stand on its own but it was a pleasure to have that added dimension.

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He has the best stories

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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 06-03-24

Malcolm Gladwall books are always so thought provoking in a way that sticks with you in the back of your mind in quiet alone time for a long time but the anecdotes are the sort you can’t wait to rush to share with someone else. Another great one.

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Really good book

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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 05-01-24

This book should be required reading for all white parents. Very interesting and informative and I’ve read a fair amount on this subject already.

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