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Emily Anderegg

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Love or Perfect? That is the question

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Revisado: 03-29-24

I absolutely love the humor of the text and performance of this reading. Great Insights into Aspergers and Relationship generally. If only every partner were this intentional and this proactive. So many more relationships would evolve and thrive. I am struck by the work that all partners have to do to communicate explicitly and choose to love. Nobody's a mind reader and Love isn't just a magical miracle. What I love about this book is it reminds me that every relationship is unique and every individual in relationship has a right to be. When the author described how difficult it was to overcome expectations of his idea of the perfect wife, I felt like this is a universal challenge that most people never overcome. Thanks to the gift of Aspergers and the focused genius that comes with it, this husband did. He chose to use Self-ism to his advantage, focus on his own shortcomings and start there. Of course we can always do better. There will always be somebody better for each of us, but Love is a choice. It begs the question, when do you stop chasing perfect and choose Love instead?

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Comprehensive Survey and Persuasive Paradigm Shift

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Revisado: 03-12-24

Neurotribes addresses the legacy of autism and the expanding discourse around nuerodiversity. It's a comprehensive survey that goes back to the origins of the Asperger and Connor studies in the mid-1900's. It also points to some earlier case studies and the usefulness of shifting away from pathology to disability and ultimately toward super ability. Powerful case for compassion and curiosity. If only I possessed the same focus, tenacity, self determination, and inventiveness. I am hopeful.

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Foundational work for anxious/avoidant Pairs

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Revisado: 01-11-23

This is a fabulous book. Way ahead of its time. Seems to form the pioneering foundation work for all of the anxious and avoidant adult attachment work and books that are current, such as Attached and Us. Offers some great practical and cognitive behavioral tools. As well as a completely new paradigm.

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The missing link

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Revisado: 08-27-21

This is such a great book that discusses some of the early childhood wounding and how that can lead to no attachment wounds and rejectionism. This is a beautiful guide guidebook through that process of isolation and overwhelm to belonging to yourself and ultimately belonging to community if that serves. She talks about the beauty and power of dreamwork as well as connecting with the stories of our ancestors. It's the pathway from abandonment rejection and detachment to independence and ultimately interdependence that gives us the strength and sustainability to live a fulfilling and love full life. Beautiful.

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Challenging but undenianle

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Revisado: 08-11-21

This is definitely an arduous read not for the faint of heart not for those who aren't spiritually inclined. But you can bring your own history and traumatic experience and feeling to this and realize it's quite affirming as well as quite a demanding ask. Three phrases come to mind and juxtapose themselves. I am. The power of now. The compassion of Presence. Remarkable that we have this capacity to transcend. Remarkable that we are divinity itself. In my mind letting go is simply developing enough presence and capacity to let be. To feel all that you must feel in order to know what you must know. The ultimate realization being the illusion of the ego and the illusion of suffering. This book demonstrates our tendencies to create false cognition's, negative and limiting beliefs as well as our capacity to let them go. It brought to mind to me the undeniable truth of our infinite value despite the mathematical less than signs that get stamped on our faces. Just as Jesus embodied and tried to teach us all, or the Buddhist monks alighting themselves in 1960s Vietnam, I am that I am. You are that you are. Here and now and forever.

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Timeless

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Revisado: 04-28-21

At once classic and modern. Truer than the Bible. A journey from an invisible cage to freedom and ultimately to the real limits of her time. Great narrator.

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Finally! From dysfunction to joy

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Revisado: 11-04-20

This is a powerful and authentic read that addresses the roots of parenting dysfunction and provides avenues to parenting bliss. very adept and practical discussions that are not a one-size-fits-all that gives you the tools to discover and recognize your own needs and desires and the tools to achieve them. Very respectful of both parents and children in the process of being human. I love the quotes and references to other works on shame. . I also see a real powerful connection between shame and trauma work, another root-based approach to addressing parental dysfunction and finding ways to enter a peaceful and calm and joyful realm of adults hood and Parenthood. However you don't need to consciously understand trauma or be involved in trauma work to benefit from the tools of shame proof parenting. Eell done.

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Making Marriage Work (Live) Audiolibro Por Dr. John Gottman arte de portada

Great summary of the four horsemen and Solutions

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Revisado: 10-02-20

It's really nice to have the summary of why marriages succeed and fail. What I like about this is that it goes into the positive offsets that he has researched. You don't get quite the same perspective in why marriage is 16 and fell. This seems to build on those principles and offer some practical solutions/endeavors. Nice it is short You can share the principles with others without requiring too much time.

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After the Affair, Updated Second Edition Audiolibro Por Janis A. Spring arte de portada

Excellent resource for recovery

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Revisado: 07-08-20

This is a great resource with a very specific examples and techniques for overcoming the challenges related to betrayal and rejection. it's open-minded and insightful supporting both the unfaithful and the hurt partner in their journey to heal recommit or move on.

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The Body Keeps the Score Audiolibro Por Bessel A. van der Kolk arte de portada

Compassionate and Ambitious

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Revisado: 10-05-19

This book is amazing. True life changing accounts explore the prevalence of trauma, including relational trauma, and offer various pathways to recovery. Hope for the hopeless. A guide to becoming present and connected through safety and love. Comprehensive survey of the history of trauma study and treatment as well as , present attempts to treat and indications for the future.

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