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Maggie B. Sennish

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Love letter to her children

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3 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 01-29-24

This is a skillfully written book with some beautiful passages and insights. As a woman who went through a hard divorce with a young child, and became a single mom who rebuilt a good life, I can relate. I applaud the author’s bravery in walking through hell to the other side. I found myself wondering if she had divorced friends- or maybe even feminist ones, as when they leave- a lot of men leave for other women or have another woman on day two, drain their half of the accounts, legal but awful, etc. Shocking to endure for sure despite being a story old as time. . When I first got divorced my theme song was an indignant “Can you believe THIS?” - and this book reads that way. But yes, I can believe it, and so could everyone else who was kind enough to listen to me back then. I kept asking myself if I was being a jealous teenager or bitter or jaded as I found myself asking “So what’s the REAL story?” as the author recounts what a stellar, always kind, “co regulated” mother she is, and how fabulous her kids are in return. I found myself feeling not uplifted, but embarrassed at my own and my kid’s very human shortcomings. There are no fights, she never blows it, no doors slam. THere’s no “I hate you” or “I wanna go live with DAD!,” no extra separation anxiety, no anger directed at her that the marriage didn’t work out, no wanting to go stay at so and so’s house who doesn’t have divorced parents. The anger most (healthy) kids show toward the parent who is most around is entirely absent. Instead ever- empathic to her needs, there are constant love notes from her son and lovingly curated playlists from a teenage daughter she adores to have long talks with, and vice versa. Maybe it’s all true- and if so- she had the divorced-with-kids outcome we all dreamed of, Personally, a little guiltily, longed for more salt and pepper in the soup, The stakes that were relayed as super high- like what if she had to move to an apartment?!!! didn’t drive the plot for me. I also didn’t understand the writing device of “This is not for you….” I felt like a curious preschooler with a bottle of Advil. I am happy for this author who writes her truth and makes a good living out of it after being left for another woman in a craptastic way, hard stuff put to good use is always a good thing. Different books have different flavors, and clearly a lot of people LOVE this hard working writer. Maybe I just like my glass filled straight up.

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Compelling, brave, poetic & scholarly

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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 04-29-23

I loved listening to and reading Lynn Melnick's intimate memoir, While meticulously illuminating the poetry and history of Dolly's songs, Melnick seamlessly braids the story of the two women's lives, providing a template for considering creative ways to not only survive, but thrive. Melnick's honesty,vulnerability, intelligence and grit combined with Dolly's bold audacity to be who the hell she wants to be provide a roadmap for post traumatic growth. As a therapist I've recommended this book to colleagues and patients alike. Melnick's voice, despite her fierceness as a poet, is as mellifluous and clear to listen to as it is on the page. The takeaway: art is soul medicine.

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Excellent novel and reading

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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars
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5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 04-02-23

Lyrical and precise storytelling with fully alive characters, including the land. I could not put it down. Also loved the delivery by the narrator- which was as melodic as the prose.

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