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Lost me with 4 h 23 min Left

Total
1 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
4 out of 5 stars
Historia
4 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 09-05-24

I love Lysa Turkerst and It’s Not Supposed to Be THIS Way was uh-mazing and helped me tremendously. However, this book is different. Had it been a physical copy I would’ve thrown it across the room after reading that line. As it was I IMMEDIATELY HIT PAUSE AND SAID, “NO!”
It is a wonderful book that I can personally identify with and Lysa has overcome unimaginable pain and forgiven. However, in Chapter 8 Unchangeable FEELS UNFORGIVABLE with 4 h 23 min left she asked me to have compassion for the pain my abuser was feeling from the weight of sin that HE CHOSE! And it most likely started as a scared child. And? AND?! I started as a scared 4 year old with VIVID memories to THIS DAY, but NEVER HAVE I EVER NOR WILL I EVER CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE TO DECEIVE & HURT ANYONE BECAUSE OF MY PAIN! NOPE. ABSOLUTELY NOT. NOT EVEN REMOTELY READY TO DO THAT when I’m DAILY TRYING to salvage what’s left of my life. Thanks “christianity” UH-GAIN my church pastors already told me the domestic violence is MY FAULT because I’m addicted to anger, divorce is a sin and have I considered what he’s going through. My forgiving him in time is between my Savior JESUS CHRIST and ME & ME ALONE. I CHOOSE TO FORGIVE HIM. I’m trying desperately to head that direction, however, I am not remotely ready to be told that to forgive him I have to have compassion on him which feels like a slap in the face, a punch in the gut that knocked me to the ground and knocked the wind out of me, and condoning his heinous behaviors.

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I didn’t find hope in it

Total
3 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
3 out of 5 stars
Historia
3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 07-11-24

I was having a very dark day when I bought this. The description sounded great and exactly like what I needed. However, I need not feel encouraged or find hope. It felt like it just jumped from one topic to another and rambled. I don’t want to be mean. I know she worked very hard on this and was vulnerable. It just wasn’t scat I needed. I pray it is for many others.

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