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Real and raw

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
4 out of 5 stars
Historia
5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 05-23-23

This book gave me a fascinating look into the life of a very unusual family, and a bit more insight into authentic (Northern) Irish culture and family life that I wouldn't have otherwise.

I'm glad I heard the author read his story in his own voice. It helped to hear the proper pronunciations of family members' Irish names, for example. He did speak fast, however. With his strong accent, that made it hard to concentrate on his story at times. My suggestion is to slow the reading speed down quite a bit so you don't miss anything.

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Summer is for relaxing

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4 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
4 out of 5 stars
Historia
3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 05-22-23

This book serves as a reminder that childhood is fleeting and that it's okay to just let your kids have a relaxed, old-fashioned summer. The 1950s nostalgia tie-in was charming. When the author realized the reality of a midcentury summer with 21st century kids wasn't nearly as ideal as she imagined, I could relate!

However, as I listened, there was something about the book that ironically felt slightly dated. Then it hit me: our kids were already home with unstructured time during remote or hybrid "learning", with no scheduled activities, for two years. We'd already been through that together, and then some.

That said, the core message of the book still resonated with me, although it did get kind of sluggish and repetitive at times... much like an unstructured summer, I guess.

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Copendence as a solution?

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3 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
5 out of 5 stars
Historia
3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 05-21-23

I'm around Roxanne Emery's age, but unlike her, I was diagnosed with ADHD as a teen in the late 1990s. I felt ashamed about it and was in denial until fairly recently, so I gave this audiobook a listen without hesitation.

I love that people like Pink and Emery are inviting us all to be more open about our embarrassing struggles and raising awareness. My issue with this book, however, is that it seems to push codependence as a solution.

Yes, we "ADHD-ers" do struggle with executive function, but the last thing I'd want is for my romantic partner to take on the role of a live-in caretaker to help me get through the day. I can't think of a less empowering message to send to readers looking for advice.

In my personal experience, nothing was more mortifying to me, as a teen, than when adults who had just learned of my diagnosis suddenly started treating me like I was "different", or less mentally mature or capable than my peers, in a very obvious way.

I'm glad these two found each other, and that they're okay with that kind of relationship, but I personally (as a fully grown woman) would feel embarrassed to have my partner take on that much of my "dirty laundry" for me.

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