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Lisa Ryan

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Painful Story of Ambivalent Parenting

Total
4 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
5 out of 5 stars
Historia
3 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 02-24-24

I love books narrated by the author and Gessen did not disappoint. He has a great voice and inflections which naturally express exactly what he felt when he wrote his essays. There’s something about hearing a story in the writer’s own voice. I hate performance-reading. It’s grating.
Gessen’s son presented obviously with some kind of a behavioral disorder from a young age. I kept thinking, “ get that child to a Child Study team!” Every caring parent, which Gessen is, can relate to searching for effective parenting strategies that don’t jeopardize the precious connection with their beloved child. Gessen describes many resources he used. As a reader though, it was painful to witness Gessen and his wife’s ambivalence about setting and holding boundaries. I couldn’t help cringing at their apologizing, giving in, and refusal to accept their power as parents. A power to do good. How secure could their scratching, punching, throwing, demanding child feel with all the guilt his parents felt about setting basic boundaries?
I kept thinking, “ your kid won’t enrage you so much if you set clear limits and enforce them.”
Perhaps it’s Gessen and his wife’s generation that is terrified of victimizing any one, afraid to exercise authority, or acknowledge that though their children are precious that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be pointedly taught that everyone deserves basic consideration, most especially the people who do everything for you.
Even if dear Raffi had a diagnosis, he would need decisive, unapologetic parenting.

I didn’t appreciate the politics woven through Gessen’s story telling but he is entitled to his views of course.
I couldnt help but connect though, his ridiculous and needless white guilt with his parenting struggles. I’m still cringing.

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Riveting, compassionate

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5 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
5 out of 5 stars
Historia
5 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 12-05-22

Firstly, the stories of each diagnostic mystery
are varied, nuanced and fascinatingly complex or unexpectedly simple.
A variety of patient populations are included.
The dedication and humanity of the physicians involved in each case round out the storylines.
I put myself in the place of the family members advocating for their loved one’s recovery and was moved by their often vital role in the outcomes.
The narration by Dr. Sanders, the author, is equally why I rated this audiobook 5 stars.
I love her narration. She is telling dramatic stories without embellishing them with melodrama. The stories speak for themselves. Yet the human details she chooses to include are perfectly integrated into the narrative.
I would recommend this audiobook to anyone interested in general health, mysteries, the medical profession at any level of service, those who face or support someone with a known or unknown medical condition, or anyone who loves a good story.

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Sigh…

Total
1 out of 5 stars
Ejecución
1 out of 5 stars
Historia
1 out of 5 stars

Revisado: 04-11-22

I wanted to like it.
But it’s just not funny.
A couple’s private depressing misery I wish I hadn’t heard about.
They seem like two nice people though.

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