Dmitry

I wish I had learned this stuff in school!

Revisado: 08-10-14

Recently I was buying food in a store. While I was standing near the fruit/vegetable section, a hot girl came into my proximity to check the same section. I automatically turned to her and calmly said "You and I need to meet next week, which works better for you Tuesday or Wedness?". She almost jumped being a little shocked and flattered at the same time with this kind of straightforward approach, but then she instantly replied with "Neither one. I'm married". I smiled and said "Thanks for an honest answer. Wish you happy marriage!)".
Right after that her husband came round the corner from another section and she walked away with him.
I froze for a second and a thought: all of the created so-called "pickup products" that I've heard of (including the ones I'm closely familiar with) would easily fill the shelves of the fruit section... Some of the products would teach you to use something like "the magic boyfriend destroyer technique" or to take 25 secret steps to create attraction with this girl (while wasting 30 or more minutes of my time on that girl before she'd tell me she was married), and yet, I did the most natural and authentic thing a man can do - I expressed my interest to an attractive girl and I let her decide if she wanted to reciprocate. "But you got rejected! Isn't it a failure?" - some might say. With that married girl whose husband appeared round the corner 2 seconds after? C'mon, are you kiddin' me?:)
The biggest thing that I learned from Alan Roger Currie, the author of "Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking" is how to deal with rejection. Not only do you save time when you have a quick rejection, but you actually save yourself from getting involved with a wrong woman. So, as the adage goes, you really learn to look at rejection as “God’s protection”. When you realize that, rejection doesn’t feel that bad at all.
I’ll be honest: I thoroughly read Alan’s “Mode One” paperback more than 2 years ago. So, I pretty much learned about the 4 modes of verbal communication and the 4 types of women a long time ago. And I didn’t expect much of the audiobook.
To my surprise, I was wrong! Not only does the author actually combine the content of two of his books in this audiobook ("Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're Really Thinking" and “Upfront and straightforward”) instead of just one, he encourages the listener to better retain the learned stuff by taking notes. The author’s delivery shows his passion to help guys conquer their fears, achieve egotistical indifference and become their true authentic selves thus making them naturally attractive to women. At times Alan’s delivery is a little bit too intense (which, of course, only resulted by his overall passionate and charismatic personality), so I feel like I get back to school to a lesson with a teacher who required high concentration and commitment to the subject. But hey, unlike being on a lesson, you can pause the audiobook, take a break or even go out and make a couple of modeone approaches:)
Jokes aside, listening to the audiobook is like having the author’s personal 7+hour consultation. And what’s even better is that, unlike many other “dating gurus” on the market (who are often just interested in making a quick buck), Alan is there to help guys around the world via Skype and email consultations for very reasonable prices. That says something to me.
I found particularly interesting the audiobook’s section where the author answers the frequently asked question about the modeone philosophy. Hopefully, this section will resolve any misconceptions people (and especially men who are so-called “white knights”) may still have about modeone: the ones who may still think that modeone is about being crass and rude to women will finally realize that it’s actually about respectfully yet firmly and confidently expressing your true and authentic masculine self. It’s something women really need from us, men, these days!
Looking forward to the author’s second audiobook “Ooh..say it again”!

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