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Unconditional Parenting
- Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
- De: Alfie Kohn
- Narrado por: Alfie Kohn
- Duración: 8 h y 41 m
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One basic need all children have, educator Alfie Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful and largely unknown research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval.
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He doesn’t think much of parents
- De amberdallas33 en 03-10-18
- Unconditional Parenting
- Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
- De: Alfie Kohn
- Narrado por: Alfie Kohn
Acts like there are only extremes in parenting
Revisado: 03-01-23
Loving your child unconditionally is a great foundation to any parent, but the author seems unaware that you can love a child unconditionally and still model appropriate behavior and set standards. A well-parented child should receive both, and there is overwhelming evidence that both are necessary.
This author continues to berate anyone who might set an expectation, or praise a child’s effort, or brag about a child’s accomplishments. Many children feel words of affirmations as their love language, but this author feels that giving praise creates conditional parameters for love.
Utter nonsense.
Children need to feel that they are loved unconditionally, but that their behavior and work ethic matter too. Behavior isn’t a parameter to be loved, but it is a parameter for maturity and success.
True maturity in a human being comes from learning expectations. It comes from creating healthy relationships. It comes from work and accomplishment.
He says that good relationships aren’t an exchange of good behavior, but unconditional. Sadly, that isn’t true. You can love someone completely, but if their behavior is toxic or cruel or selfish the majority of the time, you will not want them in your life. Yes, even a child. I worry that any parent subscribing to this idea will create children that don’t feel ownership of their behavior. Children without expectations will most likely become something you didn’t want. According to the author, that’s good.
In the book his children are very young. I can’t help but think, he just doesn’t understand what it takes to make grown ups. Maybe this approach works with young kids, but teenagers need strong expectations and boundaries. They’ll thank you when they are adults.
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The Mormon Way of Doing Business
- Leadership and Success Through Faith and Family
- De: Jeff Benedict
- Narrado por: Jeff Benedict
- Duración: 2 h y 59 m
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Critically acclaimed author and investigative journalist Jeff Benedict (a Mormon himself) examines these highly successful business execs and discovers how their beliefs have influenced them and enabled them to achieve incredible success. With original interviews and unparalleled access, Benedict shares what truly drives these individuals and the invaluable life lessons from which anyone can benefit.
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Great Book
- De Brett en 05-06-11
- The Mormon Way of Doing Business
- Leadership and Success Through Faith and Family
- De: Jeff Benedict
- Narrado por: Jeff Benedict
Be both
Revisado: 10-09-20
I always felt guilty being more business focused than gospel focused. But I do believe the Lord meets is where we’re at, and teaches us there. This book helped me see that I can and should be both and that they are not mutually exclusive.
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Born to Run
- A Hidden Tribe, Superathletes, and the Greatest Race the World Has Never Seen
- De: Christopher McDougall
- Narrado por: Fred Sanders
- Duración: 11 h y 6 m
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Isolated by Mexico's deadly Copper Canyons, the blissful Tarahumara Indians have honed the ability to run hundreds of miles without rest or injury. In a riveting narrative, award-winning journalist and often-injured runner Christopher McDougall sets out to discover their secrets. In the process, he takes his readers from science labs at Harvard to the sun-baked valleys and freezing peaks across North America, where ever-growing numbers of ultra-runners are pushing their bodies to the limit.
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Amazing read - even for non-runners
- De Corey en 05-31-09
- Born to Run
- A Hidden Tribe, Superathletes, and the Greatest Race the World Has Never Seen
- De: Christopher McDougall
- Narrado por: Fred Sanders
if this book doesn't make you want to run...
Revisado: 01-09-19
if this book doesn't make you want to run.... nothing will.
mesmerizing .....and leaves you wanting more
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A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
- De: Dave Eggers
- Narrado por: Dion Graham
- Duración: 13 h y 28 m
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Dave Eggers scored a worldwide phenomenon with this memoir that topped national best-seller lists and has since become a staple for summer reading and book clubs. A compelling voice for Generation X, Eggers hererecounts his early 20s, caring for his younger brother after their parents’ unexpected deaths and his endeavors in a variety of media.
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Great Book not right for everyone
- De Michael en 02-17-14
- A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
- De: Dave Eggers
- Narrado por: Dion Graham
has profanity, wish I could return
Revisado: 05-14-17
why can't they rate books to warn you of profanity? I don't want to fill my rare spare time with negative language. What a waste of money
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The Legacy Journey
- A Radical View of Biblical Wealth and Generosity
- De: Dave Ramsey
- Narrado por: Dave Ramsey
- Duración: 6 h y 4 m
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Dave Ramsey shares Biblical wisdom on the legacy we build with our wealth. What does the Bible really say about money? About wealth? How much does God expect you to give to others? How does wealth affect your friendships, marriage, and children? How much is "enough"? There’s a lot of bad information in our culture today about wealth - and the wealthy. Worse, there’s a growing backlash in America against our most successful neighbors, but why?
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Leave a legacy
- De Lou34 en 03-17-15
- The Legacy Journey
- A Radical View of Biblical Wealth and Generosity
- De: Dave Ramsey
- Narrado por: Dave Ramsey
your why
Revisado: 10-24-16
finally a financial book that helps you discover a good enough why to motivate the changes you need to make.
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